wantslove92 Posted June 15, 2018 Posted June 15, 2018 So I went to my cousin's wedding and her husband had a friend who I though was good looking. So I told my cousin's sister that and she was drunk so she told the guy that I think he's cute. We didn't get introduced to each other because I ended up leaving the reception before he did. He told her that he thinks I am really hot and wants to text me. So he asked for my number so my cousin gave it to him. The next day, he sent me a really long text message telling me how he met the husband (his friend) and introduced himself to me. He even said "hope you have a great day cutie". So we were texting for a little that night and then he ended up being so bland with his replies. It confused me because the first text he sent me was so long. The next day I texted him first asking him if he called me because I had 2 missed calls from him. He said it was on accident. Then after that he didn't text me the whole day. I sent him a message on instagram because he posted a picture of him on his laptop and asked about it because it said that he was on his laptop being his own boss so I asked what job he does. He never replied. Then a couple of days later no text from him... So i texted him and asked how he was. We texted a little but it was so bland once again. Then I texted him first the next day again but no reply until 11 at night. He replied and said, no time to talk, busy day, gotta sleep. So that made me kinda mad. So I thought it was pointless of me to reply to that so I didn't. We didn't text for 3 days. Suprisingly he texted me 3 days later first and asked how I was. Again, the messages were so bland.. But I was thinking to myself, wow, he actually texted me first and asked how I was.. So I was thinking, is he still interested? Then the next day, no text from him so I decided to text him. No reply... What is up with him? He doesn't seem interested anymore but I was shocked with him texting me first 2 days ago... I don't understand? I deleted his messages and phone number because I don't want to text him first again. What do you guys think? Is he interested or not? Or just plain busy? Btw I am 25 and he is 31....
Zahara Posted June 15, 2018 Posted June 15, 2018 What is up with him? He doesn't seem interested anymore but I was shocked with him texting me first 2 days ago... I don't understand? I deleted his messages and phone number because I don't want to text him first again. What do you guys think? Is he interested or not? Or just plain busy? Btw I am 25 and he is 31.... He was texting you the first two days and then he got bored. Maybe he didn't like the level of interaction or didn't find himself feeling interested anymore. It happens. Move on. Don't text him anymore. Chances are he will resurface again for an ego boost then get bored -- repeat the pattern. 1
stillafool Posted June 15, 2018 Posted June 15, 2018 Like most people these days he has a short attention span. He probably met another hot girl. 1
mortensorchid Posted June 17, 2018 Posted June 17, 2018 Yes, sorry but he's not interested. He might have been for a flash but that moment passed. Move on.
GemmaUK Posted June 17, 2018 Posted June 17, 2018 You didn't actually meet him at the event but did you see him being social with people (women too?)? It sounds as if someone helped him with writing that first message as it sounds as if it was telling you a lot and was a bit over long. His text style changed right after it. I think he may be lacking in social skills but also maybe he was cajoled into texting you. You could ask your friend to ask her man about him in confidence. These kind of guys can linger on your mind. I would probably ask the question.
act00 Posted June 17, 2018 Posted June 17, 2018 What is going on with this evasiveness and pretending you didn't notice he called, and not calling back? You state you saw he CALLED TWICE, and you text him, knowing full well it was him who called...twice...and you text with a "bland," "Hey, did you call?" Goodness, gracious, if I was all hot and bothered over a guy who went through the trouble of extracting a phone number through someone else over a comment, I would be calling back, "I saw you called, twice, I'm so sorry I missed you. Let's try again." I don't know what's going on with this guy. It seems he's taken a turn from interested to not-so-much, and it's a lot of wasted time for you to be fretting over what started out as a drunken exchange through third party word of mouth. I kind of wonder if you ignoring or not acknowledging two phone call attempts played a role in the demise of this tough starter. Whatever is going on, he's not interested enough, and you've reached out plenty of times with lackadaisical response. It's a bummer, but let it go.
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