geckojohn Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 We had 3 dates. Most recent date we slept together and texted the next morning. I asked her out later that day for drinks, but she didn't respond until late at night and said she was already going to sleep. Called her mid week, bus she didn't pick up and texted me next day. I texted her on Saturday and she didn't respond until the next day asking me what I was up to. I responded and said we should hangout. She said she was cleaning her apartment and said probably but didn't respond. Sounds like she isn't into me
Marley Rizzla Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 It sounds that way to me as well. It's textbook evasive mode. I can't tell you what went wrong; it could be a number of things. But seeing that you tried three times to schedule another date with her and she dodged all three times is a sign. How much more energy do you want to spend for her? You could try again, or you could let it go. That's up to you.
Chilli Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 No brainer. You slept together , as they say for the guys , she got what she wanted and now she's off.
Logo Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 She sounds like a player and just wanted to get into your pants. Don't let her string you along. It's time to move on.
justwhoiam Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 she got what she wanted and now she's off. just wanted to get into your pants. I disagree with you both. That way of reasoning is quite uncommon among girls. Most likely, something was off for her in the bedroom, or that was the dealbreaker. What went wrong? If anything went wrong, I guess it was either during your intimate time or afterwards. 1
Chilli Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 (edited) Yeah l agree with ya pretty well along all those lines , but yaknow, she didn't have to stay for supper either if you know what l mean. But she did.. Edited June 14, 2018 by Chilli
smackie9 Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 Think about it...is that how you would behave if you are interested? No... so she's avoiding you....move on. What went wrong? only she knows. Maybe she's cheating on her husband.
newyorker11356 Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 Either she didn't enjoy the sex with you, or didn't connect with you while having sex (even if she liked it). An 3rd option could be is that she decided to move forward with another guy she liked more.
Lotsgoingon Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 I wouldn't assume you did anything wrong. This is all her evasiveness ... Pay attention ... evasiveness emerges from a thousand different reasons ... If she was mature, she could say, "Look I really don't want to see you again. I had a good time. But I'm not further interested." But no need to assume you did something "wrong." She might be tied up with someone else ... or her life could be a mess.
newyorker11356 Posted June 14, 2018 Posted June 14, 2018 I wouldn't assume you did anything wrong. This is all her evasiveness ... Pay attention ... evasiveness emerges from a thousand different reasons ... If she was mature, she could say, "Look I really don't want to see you again. I had a good time. But I'm not further interested." But no need to assume you did something "wrong." She might be tied up with someone else ... or her life could be a mess. Nah, some women go this route on purpose to make the other guy move on. It's often their step 1 of moving on. If they eventually have to, then they might say something like "they aren't ready for anything serious right now" Maybe the OP did nothing wrong, but it's likely she lost interest for whatever reason. Even if her life is a bit of a mess right now, that's no reason to act like how she's been acting.
Andy_K Posted June 15, 2018 Posted June 15, 2018 I asked her out later that day for drinks, but she didn't respond until late at night and said she was already going to sleep. After her date with another guy she was more into? Maybe there's someone else she likes more, or maybe there isn't. If not, then chances are she didn't feel you were right for her after sex, for whatever reason. Ether way you're not a priority at the moment. No point pursuing her further. She'll get in touch if she wants to see you again, although it doesn't sound likely.
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