Maldives Posted June 12, 2018 Posted June 12, 2018 hey haven't written or been here for a while it's been over a yr now. helped tremendously in the past wth coping. anyway I won't bore every one with the details you can see my past posts if that helps getting context don't think it's needed here anyway.. ok so I'll jump straight to it..its been about 2 yrs since my ex broke it off. we still work together but it's now ok her flings in the office have not worked out and I recently saw her on tinder lol. that being said i been feeling overwhelmed wth feelings of loss lately, if she was to move back home interstate where me and her originally came from. we were together 6 yrs but for the life of me I can't work out why I feel like this. if she left I'm not sure if I'd last much longer being here which is insane but it just makes me feel incredibly lonely if she left lol she put me thru hell too wen we split. I don't get it why I feel this way? has anyone gone thru or can share a similar experience? I don't feel like that all the time but it's crazy i don't get why I care.
DrReplyInRhymes Posted June 13, 2018 Posted June 13, 2018 What do you want help with? I apologize if I seem to be a bit rude. Are you coping with the breakup or seeing her with another dude?
preraph Posted June 13, 2018 Posted June 13, 2018 You are focused on her because you work together, and you need to do something about that. Sounds like you are alone where you are now, so why not YOU be the one who quits and moves elsewhere, someplace she won't show up and where you have friends and family? 1
Author Maldives Posted June 14, 2018 Author Posted June 14, 2018 Hey Guys, Ive tried looking for work with no success it aint that bad now like it was in the past shes not seeing anyone anymore in the office, i like the job too. i guess thats probably what it is lol. thanks for the replies.
Author Maldives Posted June 15, 2018 Author Posted June 15, 2018 You are focused on her because you work together, and you need to do something about that. Sounds like you are alone where you are now, so why not YOU be the one who quits and moves elsewhere, someplace she won't show up and where you have friends and family? I think u hit the nail on the head about the friend and family part 1
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