ascofield Posted June 11, 2018 Posted June 11, 2018 hey everyone, First of all I'm sorry for my english because I'm french To make a long story short I'm 32 and I started flirting a bit with my bank advisor after she insisted on me sending her emails "just to keep her posted". She had told me in a flirty way that I could even send her mails at 3 in the morning and she told me that she will send "smoke signals" as a hint that I should send an email. A good thing to know is that it is explained on the website of the bank that the mails exchanges are recorded in each client's file. Anyway so we started to flirt just a bit during 2 exchanges and then I noticed that she stopped flirting. One day I asked her via email if I could send her mails just to say hi and I got a reply from her colleague telling me that she wasn't there and that the message will be transmtted to her when she will be back. I got no answer for 2 weeks. Then she sent an automated mail to evey client suggesting webcam as a means of communication. I accepted the offer. During the webcam session she was professional for the first 5 minutes then we started flirting again a bit. She implicitly made me understand that she kinda liked me. Then she told me that I shouldn't send her mails when she's absent because it is "delicate" since the mails are transmitted to her colleague when she's absent. At the end I asked her again if I could send her mails just to say hello" and she said it wouldn't bother her. But she added that I wasn't "forced" to. So I told her playfully that I will not send her anything. She laughed and we said goodbye. On the afternoon of that day, I sent her a mail saying that I had a great time during the webcam session, I teased her about her sense of humor and i said that she could organize another webcam session whenever she wants. I also told her that I will send her a mail next week to keep her posted on a budget management project if she wanted to. I sent her that mail last wednesday and I got no response. Do you think that by not responding she's letting me know she's no longer interested or is she being prudent about the flirting going on in the mails since they are recorded in my file. She also said that I should not send her mails when she's not there because it's "delicate". I would appreciate your opinions.
bathtub-row Posted June 11, 2018 Posted June 11, 2018 Sounds pretty ignorant to me. Why doesn’t she just give you her personal email address? For your part, I wouldn’t want a company having access to anything I said to their employee. I’m not sure what scenario could occur for it to backfire on you but I wouldn’t take any chances. Btw, your English is great!
SunnyWeather Posted June 11, 2018 Posted June 11, 2018 This sounds so incredibly unprofessional. If she was interested in you, she would give you other means to communicate with her privately. If you do business with this person, I'd seriously consider looking elsewhere.
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