thebiglimp Posted June 10, 2018 Posted June 10, 2018 so i met a girl who is down to you-know-what. all the signs are there, it almost happened the first time but my new apt wasn't yet furnished(it was literally the day i moved), second time she invited me to go clubbing but i actually stopped drinking so i declined... right now, bar and then to my place is out of question cuz i stopped drinkning. dinner then to my place? maybe too formal, and i wanna try something different this time. and it's gotta be either my place or a hotel because she lives 2 hours away, comes to my city on weekends for fun. what are some 'date' ideas to invite her to my place? house warming party? netflix and chill? (too obvious)
basil67 Posted June 10, 2018 Posted June 10, 2018 You say you know she's up for sex. How about asking her if she wants to come over and hook up? 2
BaileyB Posted June 10, 2018 Posted June 10, 2018 (edited) Why don’t you take her out for dinner and then ask her if she wants to come back to your place for “dessert...” Tell her that you have a project in your new home that you need her help... hanging pictures offer to order food. Don’t Netflix and chill... boring And a housewarming party means you are not alone. Edited June 10, 2018 by BaileyB
carhill Posted June 10, 2018 Posted June 10, 2018 If she's DTF don't make it complicated, invite her to your now unpacked and furnished place and what happens happens. If you're not dating her nor intend to, order some food in, drinks for her if she wants, virgins for you, enjoy. 2
snowboy91 Posted June 10, 2018 Posted June 10, 2018 right now, bar and then to my place is out of question cuz i stopped drinkning. dinner then to my place? maybe too formal, and i wanna try something different this time. Dinner doesn't have to be formal. Go to a place that does casual dining. Also - is a bar completely out of the question? Many places do mocktails. Otherwise - movies? Comedy? Live music? Theatre? Escape room? It's gotta be light and fun (that's the needed vibe based on what you're saying), and close so you can invite her over afterwards.
d0nnivain Posted June 10, 2018 Posted June 10, 2018 You probably should have food on hand but just say hey do you wanna come over & check out my new apartment? 3
smackie9 Posted June 10, 2018 Posted June 10, 2018 Go out clubbing....who said you had to drink. The lady likes to drink and get her groove on...that's when she will be into spending the night....when she is all juiced up on alcohol, and sexy dancing. I doubt she will be perceptive to getting slammed with a dull or quiet date night.
Logo Posted June 11, 2018 Posted June 11, 2018 Ask her if she wants to go indoor rock climbing and offer to use the shower at your place afterward. Tell her you have the new high flow shower head. 1
pc31 Posted June 11, 2018 Posted June 11, 2018 One of my exes invited me to eat a home cooked meal by him. It worked. 1
mortensorchid Posted June 12, 2018 Posted June 12, 2018 Well it depends … You're going to be having sexy time and you know she's down with it? Invite her over for dinner / drinks and then, do the deed. She's already down with it. Don't be too obvious about it like having this playing in the background or something …
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