Sussmaus7 Posted June 11, 2018 Posted June 11, 2018 Not weird at all. Friday night is family night in my house. My brother in law and sister in law is the same. Their kids were not going out on Fridays. They are now 33, 35 and 38.. with spouses and kids.. they still go for Friday night dinner at my brother in-laws house at least 2-3 times a month. I believe in creating a bond with my family. If I divorced I would ensure my kids had a date night with me a couple times a month.. they may be adults.. but they are his kids and what he is doing is lovely. I would be upset if I was him too. You can get more comfortable by getting involved.. show him u support him.. give them a gift certificate to a restaurant or tickets to a movie.. try to be understanding and you will see his temperment soften. You need to realize 1 plus 1 doesn't equal 2.. especially if he has kids. Spending every day focusing on one person can be exhausting. Get your own routine for that 1 day a month.. girls night.. find a hobby..go to a spa..do something for yourself.
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