scoodledeewa Posted May 20, 2001 Posted May 20, 2001 My husband and I have been married three years. When we met I was married to another man, and he was single. We began an affair that lasted over five years before I left my husband and married him. Shortly before the wedding our sex life started to deminish. Now we barely have sex once a month. And even then I have to plead with him. We comunicate very well in every other aspect, but when we talk about this, he clams up.He say's he loves me and that he still finds me attractive. When we do have sex if is remarkable. His excuses are, he is tired, he does'nt feel like it, later... The rejection at this point is more than I can bear and it is starting to make me resent him. He is aware of my feelings and went to the Doctor to see if his testosteroan was low. The results were fine, but now that we know this he has'nt tried to figure out what the problem is..or he knows and wont tell me......... Where do I go from here?
scoodledeewa Posted May 20, 2001 Posted May 20, 2001 My husband and I have been married three years. Shortly before the wedding our sex life started to deminish. Now we barely have sex once a month. And even then I have to plead with him. We comunicate very well in every other aspect, but when we talk about this, he clams up.He say's he loves me and that he still finds me attractive. When we do have sex if is remarkable. His excuses are, he is tired, he does'nt feel like it, later... The rejection at this point is more than I can bear and it is starting to make me resent him. He is aware of my feelings and went to the Doctor to see if his testosteroan was low. The results were fine, but now that we know this he has'nt tried to figure out what the problem is..or he knows and wont tell me......... Where do I go from here?
Tony T Posted May 20, 2001 Posted May 20, 2001 You must have had a fine affair with him for five years in order to leave your husband to marry him. Sounds like a case of karma to me. That's all I can figure.
Ashesmum Posted May 22, 2001 Posted May 22, 2001 Viagra, slip him a mickey My husband and I have been married three years. When we met I was married to another man, and he was single. We began an affair that lasted over five years before I left my husband and married him. Shortly before the wedding our sex life started to deminish. Now we barely have sex once a month. And even then I have to plead with him. We comunicate very well in every other aspect, but when we talk about this, he clams up.He say's he loves me and that he still finds me attractive. When we do have sex if is remarkable. His excuses are, he is tired, he does'nt feel like it, later... The rejection at this point is more than I can bear and it is starting to make me resent him. He is aware of my feelings and went to the Doctor to see if his testosteroan was low. The results were fine, but now that we know this he has'nt tried to figure out what the problem is..or he knows and wont tell me......... Where do I go from here?
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