jenc Posted June 5, 2018 Posted June 5, 2018 I've been dating this woman for about 6 weeks (I am also a woman). There have been a couple of challenges, mostly with a friend of hers that wasn't supportive of us. She distanced the friend (good sign) and showed me an email she had sent to the friend in which she told the friend she was in love with me (wow, really good sign). She has also consistently told me she is falling hard for me, feels a real connection, has real feelings for me etc. She also had waited to have her first sexual experience with a woman, and had it with me. So all signs point to the fact that she's serious. So tonight I worked myself up to it and I told her that I loved her. And then... **crickets**. I'm not even sure what she eventually said, but it was something about enjoying spending time with me. I was really hurt. I feel like I'm getting real mixed messages. I just said nothing, I guess in was stunned a bit, and she said "don't be mad that I didn't say it back, I want to say it when I'm ready." Like what does that mean?? I'm trying to play it cool but my head is spinning. Any thoughts would be much welcomed!
Lezbhonestaye Posted June 5, 2018 Posted June 5, 2018 Ahhhh ok keep your head... now is vital ... you HAVE to play it cool. So basically own what you said and let her process it... it's cool just keep being you and chill out.. she will just be processing it all. She may just be having a little freak out... not your issue its here... so keep busy and let her come to you k. Be strong
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