GoreSP Posted June 4, 2018 Posted June 4, 2018 Had the weirdest dream last night. I dreamt that (for some reason I don't remember) I had to sleep over at my ex's and he told me his girlfriend was coming over if I was ok with sharing the bed with her (?). I asked him if it was ''the nice one' or 'the mean one' (in my dream it was their actual names) and he said 'the mean one' so I beat him up and left. (back story; 'the mean one' is one of his two exes he was in constant contact with while we were together. She texted him inappropriate stuff like 'been thinking about you lately mostly sexy thoughts' and sending flirty snaps'. I ended the relationship mostly because he always remained in contact with her no matter how much it bothered me. For those who care, 'the nice one' was also in constant contact with him, though she was not as inappropriate and was actually nice to me)
amaysngrace Posted June 4, 2018 Posted June 4, 2018 Maybe you've finally put those feelings of self doubt and the whole bad scene of that relationship behind you.
Author GoreSP Posted June 4, 2018 Author Posted June 4, 2018 Maybe you've finally put those feelings of self doubt and the whole bad scene of that relationship behind you. Here's hoping lol
amaysngrace Posted June 4, 2018 Posted June 4, 2018 Here's hoping lol No I actually think that's what that dream was about. You took control and beat it down. Or it could mean that you have some self examination to do because often what we dream is just our subconscious bringing awareness to what's too painful to think about in our waking life. So which is it?
Author GoreSP Posted June 4, 2018 Author Posted June 4, 2018 No I actually think that's what that dream was about. You took control and beat it down. Or it could mean that you have some self examination to do because often what we dream is just our subconscious bringing awareness to what's too painful to think about in our waking life. So which is it? Well, I read up on dream meanings for fighting and it basically says one aspect of me is fighting with another so I'm guessing the 'move on' aspect of me is beating up the aspect of me that is still dealing with the fall backs of his manipulations and gaslighting (which would make sense considering the 'girlfriend joining us in bed' part of it...) The self examination would have been true a few months ago I guess. But I'm also always keeping the idea of self examination open so it could mean that I need to do more work on that end
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