deesw8 Posted June 4, 2018 Posted June 4, 2018 I met this guy a month ago and it seems from the line of questions in our first meeting, he is quite attracted to me. He is married so he tried to play it off as we were just having a friend meeting, but i feel it is not the case. He is very successful in career and everything, but I didn't feel chemistry anyway from our first friend date. I thought to myself so whatever, one more friend is not a bad thing and it's not like i wanted to sleep with someone without chemistry anyway so let me play dumb. But then after a month now, and he has not lately been in contact, not that i expect it cuz i think he felt last time it was a kinda awkward "friend date" so he probably thought he shouldn't contact me that often. But all of a sudden I thought of him from time to time and actually miss him, i mean strangely it just happened. I even started to debate whether I said the right things in our meeting last time. I am just very confused, because during our first meeting, I really didn't feel any spark. Then why then do I actually feel what I feel now though? I am very confused, please help.
Romantic_Antics Posted June 4, 2018 Posted June 4, 2018 Don't get hung up on a married man that you only "hung out with" once and who hasn't contacted you in a month. I'm asuming you have no other prospects currently and he was the last man you went out with so what you're most likely feeling is a desire to receive some attention and companionship from a man, in general, and you've associated that craving with him. Just don't seek it from this particular man. It's a dead end. There are lots of single guys out there. 1
act00 Posted June 4, 2018 Posted June 4, 2018 I'm going to agree, you've sort of fallen for a fantasy and an idea...and probably this craving has more to do with meeting a man...an available man...and less to do with him in particular. He's married. Your lack of initial attraction made you unavailable for him to seek an affair. You don't want to get involved with a married man anyway, so wipe these feelings away and seek someone who is single available.
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