MsS Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 Sorry for the long post. I just need an outlet to air my inner thoughts and feeling and a place of comfort to know of people who had been through this and survived the heartache. It was my first relationship and I had never felt so much for someone before. It didn't even lasted for 2 months when he suddenly went distant on me. No quarrels before and we were still making plans one day ago. Finally after a few days, all he could say was "sorry for the silence. Been thinking of us...having difficulty continuing the relationship". I was left with so many questions. I would have respected his decision regardless the reason - if only he had given one. My mind just keep thinking about the WHYs and WHATs. I even took the courage to ask him to tell me the difficulty and assured him that I will respect his decision. I just wanted to know the reason for a closure - any reason. I had believed that he would be man enough to reply. But he didn't. The feeling of hurt was when i realised that the 2 months had meant nothing to him, nothing because it didnt warrant him to say a proper goodbye. Goodbye to my short first relationship. I hope I will be able to find someone who will cherish my trust & heart, and not break them. Link to post Share on other sites
ItIsNotMe Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 Be happy for being with him only for 2 months. There are a lot of people in such a situation even after 2 years of fairy tale-like relationship. May be he had a crush on someone else and now she has opened for him. Or he just doesn't have real feelings for you and it was sort of a torture for him to be with someone who he doesn't love. It's better that it has ended early than too late when you've already felt for him even more. Take your time, heal your wounds. How old are you both, by the way? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 The end of a relationship is painful. You took a risk & your heart got broken. Alas it will happen again but you grew as a result of this experience & you will live to love again 2 months is not that long. It's still the beginning. Too many people move too fast initially. When things start that hot & heavy they burn out quickly. Take a bit more time before you give your heart away in the future. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MsS Posted June 3, 2018 Author Share Posted June 3, 2018 We are both 34. Although it was my first relationship, he did mentioned that he had over 10 ones, mostly in his younger days. We took it slow and just meet about 2-3 times a week. I had always thought there will be more time for the relationship to progress. It's the feeling of emptiness as i haven't met many whom I could click well. And now I have difficulty trusting my judgment well. Link to post Share on other sites
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