(Possible wishful thinking) Seems she’s implying something? UPDATE: She asked me out

[Sgthaytham]

So we’ve spoken today and I’ve asked if she can come to me for date number 3.

She’s agreed and asked if we can meet this week.

 

She wants to come visit the place I’m renovating, but I don’t think I will able to this week because of all the work I have to do. I will ask if she can make it this weekend instead.

[BaileyB]

A picnic in the mountains is definitely a date...

 

Don't worry about it. It will happen, when it happens.

 

She is clearly interested... Try not to make it a big deal (easier said than done) and just go for it! Once it happens, it won't be as awkward and you can take it from there...

[Sgthaytham]

A picnic in the mountains is definitely a date...

 

Don't worry about it. It will happen, when it happens.

 

She is clearly interested... Try not to make it a big deal (easier said than done) and just go for it! Once it happens, it won't be as awkward and you can take it from there...

 

Yeah, I agree... I shouldn’t have to push something that will come naturally when we open up to one another.

 

She’s coming over to see the work I’ve done on this restaurant, and then I’ll take her for some fun bowling.

[alphamale]

She’s coming over to see the work I’ve done on this restaurant, and then I’ll take her for some fun bowling.

 

why don't you take her for dinner and a scary movie?

[Sgthaytham]

why don't you take her for dinner and a scary movie?

 

She asked if I was free this week, but I’m not.

 

I asked if the weekend suits her, but she’s got her finals coming up... so it’s lookikg unlikely :/

[Grey40]

She asked if I was free this week, but I’m not.

 

I asked if the weekend suits her, but she’s got her finals coming up... so it’s lookikg unlikely :/

 

Should have just had her come visit your restaurant, you could have alotted at least a few hours to spend with her. You risk losing the momentum now that you’re going to have to wait over a week. It’ll be fine though, because she seems interested. There’s no easy way to make a move, but you have to do it or she’ll either start to think you don’t like her or she may friend zone you. You don’t even have to nessecarily go in for a kiss but definitley make it clear you’re not just friends—find ways to touch her etc. even if you get rejected (which you won’t), it’ll help you so much in the long run to do so, because you’ll realize how it’s not a big deal at all.

 

 

Easiest way is start on her back just kind of touching it and keeping your hand there and then kind of rubbing it a little bit. Then just kind of look into her eyes and just go in for a kiss. Once you start doing this more often, you’ll just know when the moment is right. But just like anything else, the first time will be terrifying—there’s no way to get around that except to throw yourself into the fire.

[Agonistes]

It's possible to go for the kiss too late. It's also possible to go for the kiss too early. It's a balancing act.

 

It's best to learn to read body language and kiss her when she is ready to be kissed.

[Sgthaytham]

It's possible to go for the kiss too late. It's also possible to go for the kiss too early. It's a balancing act.

 

It's best to learn to read body language and kiss her when she is ready to be kissed.

 

She’s so hard to read, she really is.

 

I still have doubts she’s even interested in me. It’s really difficult.

 

There are times when we meet I just want to jump on her and kiss her, but I hold myself back and I get nervous and rigid.

[Sgthaytham]

This concerns the girl I’m supposedly dating from the last thread I’ve made.

 

Anyway, we haven’t spoken for two days until she sent me a picture on Messenger.

 

It reads:

 

“Therapeutic Education

 

Sexual relationships

 

No contradictions”

 

And the caption “I’m relieved ”

 

 

 

Seems strange to send this...

 

I hate overthinking, but it struck me as meaning something.

[Sgthaytham]

Nothing to it I guess?

[GemmaUK]

Have you asked her why she sent it and what it/she means?

 

I've got no idea at all.

[girlinNYC]

I'm not sure what the context is?

[Sgthaytham]

Have you asked her why she sent it and what it/she means?

 

I've got no idea at all.

 

Well, without a doubt it’s to do with exams... but it’s still strange to have sent that as a conversation opener(?)

[Sgthaytham]

I'm not sure what the context is?

 

It’s probably something to do with her final exams, I just did it weird that she decided to send this picture as a conversation starter

[Sgthaytham]

Well it looks like won’t be seeing other until at least July. Her exams only finish on the 2nd.

 

She says it’ll be hard to meet during these next 4 weeks and that maybe we could do something on a Sunday.

 

Maybe she’s trying to hint that she’s not interested?

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

 

Maybe she’s trying to hint that she’s not interested?

 

I don't think that's what it means.

 

But I have no clue what it does mean!

[Sgthaytham]

I don't think that's what it means.

 

But I have no clue what it does mean!

 

I usually go by the rule: if someone likes you, they’ll make the time.

 

I know I would, no matter how busy I was.

 

So that’s that, really.

[preraph]

Don't treat it like a puzzle. Write her and say "What the ___ does that mean?"

[unevenXchange]

She may have just Texted while she was super fatigued, drunk, high, etc.

 

Not sure why people are jumping to a negative conclusion that she's not interested based on that extremely obscure text/post.

 

Sometimes people text stuff simply to get a response. Not sure what she was trying to provoke from that, but I do feel like she was drunk or just needed some attention or needed a diversion.

[Sgthaytham]

She may have just Texted while she was super fatigued, drunk, high, etc.

 

Not sure why people are jumping to a negative conclusion that she's not interested based on that extremely obscure text/post.

 

Sometimes people text stuff simply to get a response. Not sure what she was trying to provoke from that, but I do feel like she was drunk or just needed some attention or needed a diversion.

 

The reason why I think she’s not interested:

 

We texted a bit today and I told her that I’d like to see her, when is she next available, etc...

 

She said she’s incredibly busy this month with her final exams - something she did mention on our two first dates.

 

I told her that she should get in touch when her schedule clears up and she said that it was going to be difficult these 4 next weeks, but then she mentioned we could try on sundays.

 

Ball is effectively in her court. Im not going to let myself get hung up on her.

 

Pretty sure she’ll get in touch at some point.

[Sgthaytham]

Low and behold! She’s gotten in touch again.

 

Haven’t spoken to her for a couple of days, and today she sent a message asking how my dad was. He’s had two operations - his left eye and has had teeth removed.

 

Haven’t answered because I’m busy working - I’ve got priorities.

 

Good sign that she cares, at the very least...

[Sgthaytham]

So I mentioned in my previous post that the girl I took out twice was losing interest, had lost interest, was about to ghost, or a combination on these.

 

Here’s a little update:

 

Last night she messages me. Again, she sends me a picture, but this time of some food. I reply “Are you trying to make me jealous”, to which she replied “Maybe...”.

 

We have a little chat, and at one point she asks “Are you doing anything Saturday night? Because we might be able to do something”.

 

I’m actually gobsmacked - this has never happened to me.

 

Maybe it’s just her making time for me, since last time we spoke I suggested she get in touch when she wasn’t as busy.

 

Really surprised about this...

[basil67]

I think you were guilty of overthinking.

 

Great that she initiated contact with you - so are you going to accept her invitation?

[Sgthaytham]

I think you were guilty of overthinking.

 

Great that she initiated contact with you - so are you going to accept her invitation?

 

Yes, of course I will be accepting the invite!

 

Hopefully I can stop myself overthinking now...

[coolheadal]

So I mentioned in my previous post that the girl I took out twice was losing interest, had lost interest, was about to ghost, or a combination on these.

 

Here’s a little update:

 

Last night she messages me. Again, she sends me a picture, but this time of some food. I reply “Are you trying to make me jealous”, to which she replied “Maybe...”.

 

We have a little chat, and at one point she asks “Are you doing anything Saturday night? Because we might be able to do something”.

 

I’m actually gobsmacked - this has never happened to me.

 

Maybe it’s just her making time for me, since last time we spoke I suggested she get in touch when she wasn’t as busy.

 

Really surprised about this...

 

It's rare but some times the other sex does ask the guy out on the date first! Don't say no! Say YES! Enjoy and have fun, for her get her a small un-open yellow rose.. If you see a purple rose get it, because those are rare in some areas.. Red one is okay but everyone gets that one.. Be different.. Put a smile on her face hide the rose behind your back or in your jacket. Say this is for you! Be creative my friend! I wish you the best of luck!