HumanMachine Posted May 30, 2018 Posted May 30, 2018 I haven’t spoken to my ex since she admitted to cheating on me, 3 months ago. Yesterday I received a message from an obvious fake account; “heyy”, I knew it was suspect so unmatched. This account was 3km away. I have my distance set to 5km so very local, which in turn means not many people to choose from. A few hours later I go back onto tinder and there is only one person within the 5km - my ex who’s distance was also 3km away. I immediately panicked and swiped left (‘nope’ for those who don’t know). I then assumed that my ex had created a fake account to message me, when I unmatched she created her own account. Throughout the day I matched with two more obvious fake accounts, confirmed by google reverse image search, the first one asked how I was to which I replied “good” and then I unmatched after 10 minutes or so. Then the second fake account popped up, I straight up asked “*ex* what do you want?” No reply... Both of these accounts were the same distance away. I’m starting to think I’m going crazy, maybe it was just coincidental. Either way she’s back in my head and it’s bugging me. There is no way I am reaching out to her, and I know this is just a blip but damn, feels like I’m back at square one.
GoreSP Posted May 30, 2018 Posted May 30, 2018 Idk it feels like you are spending too much time worrying about whether or not it's her. Regardless of who it is, a fake account is a fake account. If you somehow suspect it's fake, unmatch and move on. If my ex got to the point he creates fake accounts to reach me (he is otherwise blocked everywhere) I'd throw him quite the pity party lol 1
Author HumanMachine Posted May 30, 2018 Author Posted May 30, 2018 You’re right on your first point. It’s stressing me out as I thought I was doing so well then BAM. If this is her then it’s pretty tame compared to what she’s done in the past...
Happy Lemming Posted May 30, 2018 Posted May 30, 2018 An "ex" is a "ex" is a "ex".... There's reason they are ex-girlfriends. What do you care if she cheated on you or not?? Do you need some kind of vindication?? It's OVER!! Move on... NEXT!! Here is a suggestion, put down the phone and go out into the real world and try to meet someone new.
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