Flozfzx Posted May 29, 2018 Posted May 29, 2018 I recently met a girl out on my travels Saturday night we talked for a few, and had a good conversation i asked her for her number, and she gave it to me. I texted her on Monday afternoon, we chatted for a few, at least 10-15mins, and invited her out she agree and i left it as that, i set the date for Thursday. Should i keep chatting with her on the phone until then or just wait to meet her on Thursday person, and talk in person? I feel like talking to much on the phone gets boring, but do something in person and laking is not, should i just wait for Thursday to chat with her again? The date is set.
MaleIntuition Posted May 29, 2018 Posted May 29, 2018 Don’t text anymore. Save the conversation until you meet. You could text her on Thursday just to confirm; something like: “I’ll pick you up at ##, looking forward to it ” 1
mortensorchid Posted May 29, 2018 Posted May 29, 2018 ^Agree with above. No need to keep texting her. You have a day/time/location set up and you're going to see her again. A text to confirm is all you need to do at this point.
DontBreakEven Posted May 29, 2018 Posted May 29, 2018 I recently met a girl out on my travels Saturday night we talked for a few, and had a good conversation i asked her for her number, and she gave it to me. I texted her on Monday afternoon, we chatted for a few, at least 10-15mins, and invited her out she agree and i left it as that, i set the date for Thursday. Should i keep chatting with her on the phone until then or just wait to meet her on Thursday person, and talk in person? I feel like talking to much on the phone gets boring, but do something in person and laking is not, should i just wait for Thursday to chat with her again? The date is set. Totally disagree. It's nice to keep in touch just to see how her day was. Otherwise I guarantee she's going to be wondering if Thursday is even happening now that you've disappeared.
Author Flozfzx Posted May 29, 2018 Author Posted May 29, 2018 Totally disagree. It's nice to keep in touch just to see how her day was. Otherwise I guarantee she's going to be wondering if Thursday is even happening now that you've disappeared. Ya but keeping in touch is almost acting needy, and shes probably going to sense that, maybe keeping in touch will send another message as “are you still interested”..
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted May 29, 2018 Posted May 29, 2018 Ya but keeping in touch is almost acting needy, and shes probably going to sense that, maybe keeping in touch will send another message as “are you still interested”.. Have you already set up a place and time to meet?
Author Flozfzx Posted May 29, 2018 Author Posted May 29, 2018 Have you already set up a place and time to meet? Yes but im going to call her and confirm where to pick her up.
Sbla22 Posted May 29, 2018 Posted May 29, 2018 From experince with this it always seems to boil down to this: If she is genuinely interested in you then you can't harm your chances either way. If she has minimal interest you should text maybe once a day or once every other day just to check in or she will cancel the date as she has other dates lined up and she easily forgot you. Texting lengthy messages every day is never good. I try and get a first date arranged within 3 or 4 days now of asking. I hate that time in between - I made the mistake of texting too much before and they ended up cancelling and a few times the woman has text me too much and I ended up being put off by things she said so I cancelled it. Best bet - the occssional check in with her - day before send something like 'we cool to meet at 8 tomorrow? Will meet you at....'
Author Flozfzx Posted May 29, 2018 Author Posted May 29, 2018 From experince with this it always seems to boil down to this: If she is genuinely interested in you then you can't harm your chances either way. If she has minimal interest you should text maybe once a day or once every other day just to check in or she will cancel the date as she has other dates lined up and she easily forgot you. Texting lengthy messages every day is never good. I try and get a first date arranged within 3 or 4 days now of asking. I hate that time in between - I made the mistake of texting too much before and they ended up cancelling and a few times the woman has text me too much and I ended up being put off by things she said so I cancelled it. Best bet - the occssional check in with her - day before send something like 'we cool to meet at 8 tomorrow? Will meet you at....' It is true what you say, but wouldnt that seem a bit needy? It makes it seem like im just reassuring if shes still interested.
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