Kmimsss Posted May 27, 2018 Posted May 27, 2018 Hi, I’m 20 y/o female and have not have a bf for a reason - cause I wasn’t allowed to and now I can. However, I met this guy and he goes college as me. I started to have feelings for him. We talked got over a month but now I feeling is fading as we hardly know what to talk about. Only asking what are you doing now, what you doing tomorrow, have any plans but that’s basically it. But I don’t know what to tell him as I don’t want to lead him on. I’m not experienced at this as I’ve never had a bf before.
nospam99 Posted May 27, 2018 Posted May 27, 2018 Hi, I’m 20 y/o female and have not have a bf for a reason - cause I wasn’t allowed to and now I can. I am getting a traditional/non-Western vibe from this statement. I'd love to see OPs tag their threads with age, gender, orientation, and culture (this OP scores 3 of 4). Anyone on LS giving 'advice' that crosses those barriers (extreme e.g. atheist 'mercan male playah advising virgin Saudi 20-something female) is highly likely to fail. In this case it would help to know the OPs religion and location to clarify why she wasn't 'allowed'. 1
coolheadal Posted May 27, 2018 Posted May 27, 2018 Hi, I’m 20 y/o female and have not have a bf for a reason - cause I wasn’t allowed to and now I can. However, I met this guy and he goes college as me. I started to have feelings for him. We talked got over a month but now I feeling is fading as we hardly know what to talk about. Only asking what are you doing now, what you doing tomorrow, have any plans but that’s basically it. But I don’t know what to tell him as I don’t want to lead him on. I’m not experienced at this as I’ve never had a bf before. Why not explore and learn what you want? Your rushing into things and you don't understand what you want yet. When it happens it happens. I going to tell you one thing though. Most women your age won't find anyone they deem to be with because of the very fact you weren't allowed to date. So now you can but you're unsure of what the man you weren't allowed to date will do with you? How do you feel about having kids? Are you ready for that? What are you looking for in a man? Are you looking for just dating or just wondering? You have to figure out a lot before you start dating anyone. There can be best guys out there for you but you have to make sure they are just that? Not easy and a lot of men are still married, might have kids then they might have girl friends and like to see others. When men act strange they usually have someone else in tow. Just be careful who you select when your ready... The worst fears will cause you to go back to where you family didn't want you to date yet because they knew how men are today.. You just need to understand what the heck is waiting for you out there. I am just being honest..
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