snakedr Posted March 25, 2018 Posted March 25, 2018 Looking for advice for my first post. Matched with a girl on Tinder. We started texting and talked off and on every day for about a week. Went out together a couple nights ago and seemed to hit it off, as best as I could tell. I texted the next morning, got a quick response and haven't heard from her in about a day and a half, despite texting her again. Do I just consider it as she's not interested? Not sure if I should call her or just let it go.
coledvids Posted March 25, 2018 Posted March 25, 2018 You could try and call her, but if there's no response it's probably wise to just leave it at that. 1
alphamale Posted March 25, 2018 Posted March 25, 2018 Do I just consider it as she's not interested? Not sure if I should call her or just let it go. she's not interested man, just let it go and move on to the next girl 1
coledvids Posted March 25, 2018 Posted March 25, 2018 she's not interested man, just let it go and move on to the next girl Ugh. Stop advising people to move on to the 'next' girl. It's this kind of mindset that makes people think ghosting is acceptable. We don't all jump from person to person in this way. OP, if you want to try and call, try and call. When you messaged her, you have literally no idea what may have been happening in her life. Obviously the call will be your last attempt at trying to contact her, though. You don't want to come across as a pest. 3
Romantic_Antics Posted March 26, 2018 Posted March 26, 2018 It's this kind of mindset that makes people think ghosting is acceptable. We don't all jump from person to person in this way. Finally! Someone else who thinks the way I do. #bromance 3
I'veseenbetterlol Posted March 26, 2018 Posted March 26, 2018 Ugh. Stop advising people to move on to the 'next' girl. It's this kind of mindset that makes people think ghosting is acceptable. We don't all jump from person to person in this way. OP, if you want to try and call, try and call. When you messaged her, you have literally no idea what may have been happening in her life. Obviously the call will be your last attempt at trying to contact her, though. You don't want to come across as a pest. I will disagree on this one. I am very respectful when it comes to dating, but if the guy has low interest, I do move on to the next guy. No excuse to take forever to text, we have our phones on us 24/7. Whenever a guy took awhile to text, he wasn't interested.
Flame Aura Posted March 26, 2018 Posted March 26, 2018 Send one more text asking if shes free on xx to meet up for yy. If no reply or negative answer then NEXT. 1
coledvids Posted March 26, 2018 Posted March 26, 2018 Finally! Someone else who thinks the way I do. #bromance BRO! I love you, bro
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