jhurtinct Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 I moved out of my ex boyfriends(my 4 yr old sons fathers) house 1 mo ago and after a month we started talking again. we've been spending alot of time together again even though I know I shouldn't be. We broke up this time because we just weren't getting along and we decided it wasn't right for our son to see us argue all the time. We were together for 6 years and he has hurt me numerous times and I don't know if I can ever truely trust him, but and its a big but, I love him and when we are apart like this I feel like my workd is coming down I can't focus on anything else can't think about anything else. I just want to be happy with him. My question is what is the best way to get to him to make him want me back as much as I want him, for all of our sakes, I miss him and he misses me but our son misses the whole life and that really breaks my hurt. help please
bluechocolate Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 I just want to be happy with him. But it sounds like you weren't. ...he has hurt me numerous times and I don't know if I can ever truely trust him, You may love him but if you can't trust him your relationship will never work. My question is what is the best way to get to him to make him want me back as much as I want him No one is going to be able to answer that question for you. Only you and he have the answers. You'll have to find out from him if he wants to get back together & makes things work. If he does then you'll both have to commit to working on those issues which led to the breakdown in the first place & that will probably mean seeking some outside help in the beginning. If you can't get that commitment then just getting back together will end you up right back where you are now & your son probably the worse off for it.
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