Ktsoph Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 The guy I’ve been talking to recently has told me he needs some time to sort his stressed out since he is about to graduate college... I’m a junior we have been seeing eachother for 2 months. He blew me off last weekend and when I asked him he said he was extremely stressed and didn’t want to bother me with his problems. This is a week after I asked him what he’s wanting and he said he’s planning on dating and becoming official but is scared bc of an ex that did a number on him. He is a very nice guy and best start to a relationship I’ve ever had, but idk why he is shutting me out. He hasn’t texted as sweetly lately and I’ve been trying to give him his space. When I asked him what was wrong, if he wanted to continue seeing eachother, he said yes he does he just needs to sort his stuff out right now. He has a job and house for after school already. I am crushed and confused, trying to not take it personally. Please help. Please don’t be harsh. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 He has met someone else, but he doesn't want to ditch you in case it doesn't work out with her. In other words he's keeping you on the back burner while he tests out someone new. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ktsoph Posted March 21, 2018 Author Share Posted March 21, 2018 It’s definitely not that, he is always a one girl type of guy and is afraid of cheating bc his mom was cheated on. He is prioritizing his friends over me currently Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 We talked about this the last time you posted. He doesn't want to be "tied down" during his last months at college. The closer graduation comes the less attractive having a coed GF looks. He's kinda doing a slow fade on you. Sorry. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 he is about to graduate and doesn't see you in his future 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Whodatdog Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 I dont think he wants to hurt your feelings and tell you directly, but he's breaking up with you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ktsoph Posted March 21, 2018 Author Share Posted March 21, 2018 But then why not take the easy way out when I asked him? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 (edited) Because he doesn't want to hurt you by telling you the truth. He expects you to fade. Why are you still pursuing this guy after your last thread? More than likely he has spoken to his ex and his head is spinning again. Edited March 21, 2018 by stillafool Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted March 22, 2018 Share Posted March 22, 2018 It’s definitely not that Yes, it's definitely that. Link to post Share on other sites
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