Crow795 Posted March 21, 2018 Posted March 21, 2018 (edited) Few month ago, I dated a girl for a short period of time. She fell in love with me but I didn't. She is sweet and caring, every I dreamed about. But I still found things I disliked and just ran away. The problem is that I still think about her and even saw her in my dreams. Every time I think about her, I have that feeling of butterflies in my heart. I don't know if this is love or something else. btw, I dated other girls after her but I never felt that connection. Currently I am thinking about talking to her. But I am afraid that I might be wrong and hurt her again. After I posted a question here.You made me think that I might be not ready for a relationship. And that made me think that I have to try more. Edited March 21, 2018 by Crow795 grammer
basil67 Posted March 21, 2018 Posted March 21, 2018 You wrote about a girl in this thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/651508-gf-difficult-childhood is it the same girl? If so, did you break up with her because of the issues you raised in that thread?
canadaman817 Posted March 21, 2018 Posted March 21, 2018 It sounds like this might be a good time for self-examination and reflecting on what your motivations are for wanting to reach out to her again. Do you want to get back with her simply because of feelings, and because she boosts your self-confidence? Do you feel that the two of you are actually compatible? Do you think you can show her as much affection and care as she has shown you? Hoping you are able to make a wise decision on this part.
d0nnivain Posted March 21, 2018 Posted March 21, 2018 If it's the same girl, you are not in love with her. You weren't then & you aren't now. You are feeling nostalgic & mistaking that for love.
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