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About two weeks ago my ex narc boyfriend decided to end things we were together for five years and he hurt me really badly. I found out that he did something very shady which was to kiss and engaged woman at his brothers house and his brother and fiancé had to clean up the mess that he left when the couple arrive to confront my ex narc. My ex narc thought it wasn’t a big deal but it was his family wanted to tell me what happened but he said he was going to tell me. He never did for a good month and that’s when he decided to end things when I found out what he did when I called his family I was upset. I then decided to confront him and decided to show up to his place to ask him why he would hurt me that way he then decided to go ahead and call the cops on me. I was so hurt by his actions and he was such a coward that he did not want to go ahead and talk to me about what he did to me. I am very heartbroken by this whole situation the fact that he called the cops on me was unnecessary he did not press charges or asked for a restraining order but the fact that he did that I just can’t believe it. I am truly heartbroken if anyone has been in my shoes please share. I feel so shattered.

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I once had an ex-gf who did something similar, although she wanted to explain her point, it didn't seem like that to me, when you turn up uninvited to someone's place, it's an interpretation for some drama, regardless of your intentions.

 

Since the deed is done, you're hurt and most likely you will like to still prove your point but desist from it, try to have a cool off period, especially for yourself.

 

During that cool off period, you will realize and reminisce, also it will give you a building block for your mind to move on

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Oh, he was just being a coward. He knows he was wrong and isn't going to win an argument about this, so he decided to just throw his weight around instead. What a coward.

 

Listen, you are surely done with him after both those stunts. So just clear out before he does something worse. Don't look back. Not a catch. Start dating other guys.

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Oh, he was just being a coward. He knows he was wrong and isn't going to win an argument about this, so he decided to just throw his weight around instead. What a coward.

 

Listen, you are surely done with him after both those stunts. So just clear out before he does something worse. Don't look back. Not a catch. Start dating other guys.

 

He is not obliged to talk to her so if he felt threatened he is well within his rights to call the police.

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