Brokster Posted March 16, 2018 Posted March 16, 2018 I've liked this girl for a good year now. She drives me crazy. She's really smart and cute and she's literally the nicest person I've ever met. The thing is she is in none of my classes (we're in 8th grade), I dated her friend, my friend dated her, and I'm a generally scared person. I can't summon the courage to go talk to her because there is nothing to talk about. I tried to talk to her for one day and halfway through the day I threw up in the bathroom from anxiety. I was planning on just skipping conversation the next day and just confessing my feelings, but I just couldn't do it. My mom is putting so much pressure on me to take it slow, but the more I stall the more anxiety I acquire, and the more anxiety I have the more I physically suffer. So really the question is should I take it slow or should I go in for the kill? Highest regards, Brokster.
LoverOfDance Posted March 17, 2018 Posted March 17, 2018 Lol, you're so cute. Yes, ask her out. Don't be scared. I really hope she says yes but if she doesn't, don't take it too hard. You're really young and it's really not a big deal even though you don't know it now. Also, crushing on someone for a whole year without saying anything is really not a good idea. It's emotionally and mentally unhealthy. You'll learn as the years go by. Be positive and ask her out. No matter what happens you'll be fine :-)
preraph Posted March 17, 2018 Posted March 17, 2018 Forget about fancy speeches or trying to plan what you say to her. If you have her cell number, just ask her out. If you don't, pass her a little Post-It note that says your cell number and also says "Can I get your number?" and see if she texts you. Then ask her out. If she doesn't respond, forget about her. Remember, it's not always because of you. Every girl I ever knew had a crush on some guy she was holding out for, whether they knew she existed or not. The younger they are, the more likely for that to happen.
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