Kristine Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 This guy asked me out yesterday and I agreed to go, we haven't made definite plans yet. But some stuff about him surfaced and I'm no longer interested in dating him. How do I end it before it starts? I'm kind of in a predicament with I've made him think I was interested despite what he said but after some thought I'm really not.
PRW Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 This is where women get into trouble by trying to be too nice. You just tell him that after further consideration you don't feel the two of you are a good match and that you are canceling the date. He will either take it graciously or he won't. If he doesn't,...well,...then you got your answer and your confirmation that you were right. It is better to deal with this now than after you have been on a few dates with him. BTW - I'm a guy,...so you are getting this from a guy's mouth (figuratively speaking) 1
Miss Spider Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 “Sorry for the late notice, but I won’t be able to make it tomorrow. “ Then he will probably ask out again “I’m no longer interested. Good luck.” *Block* Then he will probably ask why, then argue you have the wrong impression of him etc etc Thankfully you won’t have to suffer that because he’s blocked
PRW Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 For the future make it a personal rule that you don't agree to a date where the guy didn't make definite plans or tries to put the burden of planning on your shoulder. It is ok if he asks when you are available, but be a little vague like saying "I'm free this day or that day". But it needs to be on him to determine the exact day/time/place. Consider it a test. It is probably a good idea to meet the there rather than pick you up on at least the first date. Again - You're hearing this from a guy.
alphamale Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 This guy asked me out yesterday and I agreed to go, we haven't made definite plans yet. But some stuff about him surfaced and I'm no longer interested in dating him. How do I end it before it starts? I'm kind of in a predicament with I've made him think I was interested despite what he said but after some thought I'm really not. just say that you and your ex are thinking about getting back together and you need to cancel
PRW Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 just say that you and your ex are thinking about getting back together and you need to cancel ...and she is going to meet up with the Ex after his martial arts class
smackie9 Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 How about this...."Sorry but I have changed my mind and will not be going on on a date with you. I wish you all the best".
alphamale Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 ...and she is going to meet up with the Ex after his martial arts class which he teaches
Miss Spider Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 "Sorry but I have changed my mind and will not be going on on a date with you. I wish you all the best". This is good. But block promptly after if you want to avoid a ****storm of drama. Just forewarning 2
Art_Critic Posted March 15, 2018 Posted March 15, 2018 just say that you and your ex are thinking about getting back together and you need to cancel I've had that one used on me before... it worked... "After Googling you I have decided to cancel the date, you don't look like your mugshot"
Author Kristine Posted March 15, 2018 Author Posted March 15, 2018 Thanks guys and gals. Good advice on this website, I'm following some of it not all.
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