basil67 Posted March 16, 2018 Posted March 16, 2018 You're the dumper because you knew what you needed and you chose to free yourself and look for it. And good on you for having the courage to do so. If she dies because she sees you with someone else, that's her problem. Not yours. If she'd wanted you enough, she would have been fully committed to the relationship.
AwkwardRobot Posted March 16, 2018 Posted March 16, 2018 Yesterday I went on a date with the new girl That's great! I hope your date went well! The fact that she would reach out to you just to say she feels like she would die if she saw you with someone else is... just awful and manipulative. It feels sketchy all around. Definitely block the Mom. I can understand not wanting to disrespect her, but whether or not she realizes it, her daughter is using her profile to cyber-stalk you and that is not okay. If she can't understand that... frankly, she's not worthy of your respect. Keep moving forward and keep choosing happiness. Good luck!
PegNosePete Posted March 16, 2018 Posted March 16, 2018 Yesterday I went on a date with the new girl I wouldn't recommend dating anyone else until you're over your ex. Clearly, you're not. It's not fair on the new girl to deceive her like this.
Agonistes Posted March 16, 2018 Posted March 16, 2018 Your ex is being melodramatic and manipulative. You are apparently not over her. You must have gotten really addicted to all the drama.
Author raidmax Posted March 16, 2018 Author Posted March 16, 2018 I wouldn't recommend dating anyone else until you're over your ex. Clearly, you're not. It's not fair on the new girl to deceive her like this. What if you really never get over your ex? Should you stay single all of your life?
marky00 Posted March 17, 2018 Posted March 17, 2018 You're the dumper because you knew what you needed and you chose to free yourself and look for it. And good on you for having the courage to do so. Ideally, that would be great. If you can end something with someone you love but you know isn't right for you, kudos to you. But here he is on LS. Makes sense if he loved her when he ended it. My main point was the thread title needs to be taken in a new context if its true that the relationship was one-sided. If the OP's account of things is accurate, why is someone who didn't love the OP threatening to kill herself? Sounds like game playing to me. Sounds like someone trying to get a reaction. My guess is she is trying to get the OP to engage with her so she can suck a little more life out of him and/or maybe end things on her terms.
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