bad but long situation please read it tho

[seaneyG]

hey guys im new to this thing i just started and i have a problem me and my girlfriend have been going out for like 4 and a half months right so you think this would be easier but its not im 17 and she's 18 but her parents still control her life by threatening me about calling the cops on me if i keep talking to her they tried to break us up one time but it didnt work we still wanted to go out after i had a party and got away with it and then she had one and her parents came home early and i was going to be their and her friends stabbed her in the back and said that we were gonna do things when she got drunk but i told her nothing would happen if she did because i would watch her house im not that big on drinking

 

and that night i ran from the cops with her because her parents called the cops on her for takeing her car and just running with it so we parked it at her school and when they went to get it it had a donut tire on it and the next morning i had to go over their and he started yellin at me and her sayin how its over between us and we met eachother at work so we both just kept going out and kept it secret for about 2 months and the third month she started comeing over on days her parents thought she had to work so her parents came up their to see if she was working and she wasnt she was over my house and she got scared of wat her parents would do if she went home that night so she stayed at my house that night after i asked my dad he asked how old she was and shes 18

 

so he said yeah so... now her parents are looking for her everywhere so she ended up moveing in with us for a weekend and her parents and my dad were argueing back and forth on the phone sayin i will throw her stuff on the front yard and my dad said if you do that then i will have u arrested for trustpassing so then my dad hung up on him so he came by later that day asking for her and she went over their sayin let me talk 2 her for 5 minutes and if i cant convince her to stay with us she can come live with you so about 3 hours later she comes back and her dad is throwing all her stuff over the lawn so she ended up moveing in for about another week and her mom calls back sayin her dad was crying while he was cutting the grass

 

so she went back home and she told them stuff would have to change between her and her parents so she went back on the promise that she would get her car back her cell and her college would be paid for and her books she needs and nothing changed but i was aloud to see her but she had to be home at 8:30 everynight so later about a month later she comes over and her parents told her she could be home by 11:30 and after we went bowling and her parents call my phone at 8 saying she has to be home in a half an hour all mad and she did i told her she should go home after we go bowling but she didnt she came back to my house and slept their because she was scared of what her parents might do

 

so that next morning she goes to her grandmothers and her grandmother is on the phone with her mom and her grandmother said she just walked threw the door so her dad is already on her way their and i call their later just making sure she is ok and her dad picks up the phone sayin WT* do you want like 3 times and im sittin their like who is this so i asked in like a laughing voice i thought it was her uncle because me and her uncle are cool so now she's sitting their crying and he's yellin at me again and calling me names and saying i was a punk kid and im not i love my friends and family and especially her i would do anything for her i let her move in with me because she didnt wanna be with her family and i bought her julery and her dad was sayin all u want to do is get down her pants

 

and how he didnt like me from the beginning so he tells me she doesnt wanna talk 2 me anymore and she yells I DIDNT SAY THAT so he says oh really so he shoves the phone in her face and she didnt say nothing because he said if she does she isnt aloud to talk to her mom or dad or brother anymore and she would live with me till she can get out on her own so i dont blame her in a way but for her parents to call me a punk kid i take that verry badly i was raised right the only thing i do is dress like a ghetto boy or something but im not like that at all its just a style i got into from where i use to live and i just kept that style so thats how he thinks of me oh yeah and he said i do drugs and i told her to tell him that he can take me for a test and he never did but i think the only reason i think i like her this much is because she said she loves me and i said it back but she never said that to ANYONE and i asked her ex if she ever did and he said no so i dunno what to do weather i should keep talking to her trying to get her out of that house and keep her with me or just not talk to her anymore and move one to somebody else but not date for a while and yes she did break up with me this time when her parents told her to

 

if this is to long i will chop it up into smaller sections i just had to get the problem on the table

[NiCoLe20]

i think you should leave her be for a little while. let her talk to her parents and get her family issues str8end out. sounds like her dad is phsycho so she has to work out things w/ him before she does with you. dont let her choose you over her family. thats a big mistake. tell her this. she cant give up school, her car, and her family for you.... that stuff should be #1 on her list.... i think her dad is too obsessive over her and doesnt want her to date yet... respect that and tell her you two should take it slow so you can gain back her fathers trust.

[Nostalgic]

I agree with Nicole but gotta say...

 

VERY difficult/frustrating to read without punctuation. At least a period once in a while sweetie!