hercules22 Posted March 9, 2018 Posted March 9, 2018 So i went out last night took her out for dinner we also had desert at another place then went for a walk along the beach we were out together for 3 hours both lost track of time and was surprised time flew by quick during date. She had a few missed calls and didn't notice she got another call as were walking back to my car for me to drop her back home and got news that her godfather passed away her family was looking for her they knew where she was she ended up going back home with her sister we said goodbye and i said sorry to hear about the godfather passing away . I texted her as i got home said i had a great time and hoped she was okay and her family , she ended up replying late i was asleep but she thanked me for the dinner now i am just not sure when to ask for a 2nd date with what happened that night
d0nnivain Posted March 9, 2018 Posted March 9, 2018 If you are brave enough ask for her snail mail address & mail her a condolence card. Text her at least once per day to ask how she is doing & express your condolences. Ask about the details for the services. Once you find out, the day after you can gently suggest getting together if she's up for it. 5
BaileyB Posted March 9, 2018 Posted March 9, 2018 You can most certainly tell her tha you enjoyed your evening and you are looking forward to getting together again. Just be direct and tell her that you wish her well in the days ahead, and you would like to see her again when she is ready - after the funeral. Good luck! 4
mortensorchid Posted March 10, 2018 Posted March 10, 2018 Ask her out NOW. If you like her and want to see her again, DO IT. If you have not heard from the man within 48 hours after the first get together, you will not hear from him again or he'll just be a friend. DO IT NOW.
Popsicle Posted March 10, 2018 Posted March 10, 2018 If you are brave enough ask for her snail mail address & mail her a condolence card. Text her at least once per day to ask how she is doing & express your condolences. Ask about the details for the services. Once you find out, the day after you can gently suggest getting together if she's up for it. This. Show that you have a heart. 1
Author hercules22 Posted March 11, 2018 Author Posted March 11, 2018 (edited) So i texted her to see how she was was holding up after what happened. also said i would like to see her again told her i know she has alot on her plate right now and to get back to me when she was ready told her i was sorry about her loss again and she had my condolences and for her to take care She was glad i checked in on her and hoped i was well. she agreed she got alot to deal with now with the passing of godfather uni and work . Edited March 11, 2018 by hercules22
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