crazyguy123 Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 So I go to the gym and I always catch this girl looking at me. We just met. Anyways, she occasionally teases me. When we first met, I gave her my real name. Then every other time after that I would tease her with my fake names and somehow she ended up getting my real name. During one of the gym classes that we do, I partnered with her. Taught her as she is relatively new. Had quite a bit of laughs. She asked me quite a bit of questions, such as, if I were to compete again and such. What are your thoughts? My biggest question is, why does she look at me?
alphamale Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 why does she look at me? because she likes you, you bOOb 3
CptInsano Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 Look back at her, then scream suddenly and loudly: "WHAT YOU LOOKING AT?" Make sure the whole gym years it. I heard women like that. But seriously, she probably wonders why you stopped talking to her. What exactly are you waiting for? 2
act00 Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 She's looking at you because she likes how you look. She thinks you're hot. Maybe she's watching your technique. She's probably attracted to you. What do you mean giving her your real name? Do you lie about your name to people? Why do you have fake names, and why, if you're interested in this woman, are you giving her fake names? Is it your goal to make her feel foolish and stupid? Is this a fun thing for you to be evasive and no one knows what to call you? Are you this evasive and a liar about other aspects of your life? Do you deflect reality with perceived humor, making people the butt of your jokes? I'm just trying to figure this out...if it's a fun little joke to ask your name every day, and you toss some random name out, okay. Have fun with it. When you paired up, it was an opportunity to talk and know you more, and I hope you reciprocated trying to know her more as well. I don't know if she's interested in dating you. Looking at you may not be a hint or a clue. I look at my young, hot instructors and other patrons who are more experienced than me all the time for technique and to make sure I'm doing it right. BUT, it's definitely a good sign that she's eyeballing you, and my suggestion would be to talk to her, and don't be a jokester all the time, and put out the feelers. Ask her out if she seems receptive. She's probably waiting on you to make the first move. 1
Author crazyguy123 Posted February 23, 2018 Author Posted February 23, 2018 She's looking at you because she likes how you look. She thinks you're hot. Maybe she's watching your technique. She's probably attracted to you. What do you mean giving her your real name? Do you lie about your name to people? Why do you have fake names, and why, if you're interested in this woman, are you giving her fake names? Is it your goal to make her feel foolish and stupid? Is this a fun thing for you to be evasive and no one knows what to call you? Are you this evasive and a liar about other aspects of your life? Do you deflect reality with perceived humor, making people the butt of your jokes? I'm just trying to figure this out...if it's a fun little joke to ask your name every day, and you toss some random name out, okay. Have fun with it. When you paired up, it was an opportunity to talk and know you more, and I hope you reciprocated trying to know her more as well. I don't know if she's interested in dating you. Looking at you may not be a hint or a clue. I look at my young, hot instructors and other patrons who are more experienced than me all the time for technique and to make sure I'm doing it right. BUT, it's definitely a good sign that she's eyeballing you, and my suggestion would be to talk to her, and don't be a jokester all the time, and put out the feelers. Ask her out if she seems receptive. She's probably waiting on you to make the first move. Gave her fake names just to tease her. When we paired together, we actually laughed a lot doing the technique. I don't know how to describe it. But we were having a lot of fun playing around with each other. On top of that, Because I am advance, i actually taught her.
Miss Spider Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 because she likes you, you bOOb Lol... —- Having been looked at before, and having looked at others plenty, I don’t think it means much if anything but possibly that she has ability to view surrounding objects using light in the visible spectrum reflected by the objects in her environment. 1
alphamale Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 Do you like her too? of course he likes her why else would he post this?
snowboy91 Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 She looks at you, you two tease each other, and you've partnered for a class. The whole gym probably knows you're into each other. Ask her out already! 1
Crazyalex84 Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 She looks at you, you two tease each other, and you've partnered for a class. The whole gym probably knows you're into each other. Ask her out already! /Thread. That's it, go for it
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted February 25, 2018 Posted February 25, 2018 I always use to catch a guy looking at me. He had a girlfriend and always denied liking me like that. My theory is: sometimes people just look at other people. It doesn't mean anything, just maybe they're staring into space in your general direction or like they're wondering what it's like to be with you but they don't like you enough to act on it. 1
Author crazyguy123 Posted February 28, 2018 Author Posted February 28, 2018 I met this girl at the gym. She's relatively new. Long story short, met in a class, gave her the real name then teased her with fake names whenever she would forget. Ends up getting my real name (obviously she asked around). I catch her constantly looking at me. We did have quite a bit of fun together when we partnered up for one of the classes. On top of that, she didn't finish her work out because i asked her to join a class with me. The other day, I asked her if she was going to go to the gym party. She said she can't but replied back that we will hang out one day. Then she said something about Monday but she was at a distance so I didn't get it. Anyway, sounds like she likes me. But honestly, I dont get the look where her pupils dilate or even have a big smile. On top of that, she knows some people at the gym who dislike me. So who knows what they will tell her. What are your thoughts on this and what should I do?
Imajerk17 Posted February 28, 2018 Posted February 28, 2018 (edited) You expect us to be able to figure out whether a complete stranger likes you just going by a couple short paragraphs?? Nobody here knows. There is really only one way to find out. Why don't you just man up and suggest to her that you and she hang out. Her answer will tell you what you need to know. Edited February 28, 2018 by Imajerk17
act00 Posted March 1, 2018 Posted March 1, 2018 It's promising that she suggested something about Monday. It would have been better to get close to her and ask her about Monday because you were too far away and couldn't hear...you could have nailed down a time. But that moment has passed, so why not come up with some Monday ideas, and when you see her, tell her you're sorry, you didn't hear what she said about Monday, but you would love to treat her to drinks or something. I don't really know what to say about pupils. In a well-lit gym, I don't know how dilation can be an adequate indicator of interest. The fact she's not smiley could be her personality or she's nervous/shy, and she doesn't know if you like her or not, so she's holding back. See what you can plan for Monday or even the weekend. Ask her out.
Flame Aura Posted March 1, 2018 Posted March 1, 2018 She wants your babies. And being serious, nobody knows if she likes you. What you need to do is take control of the situation and ask her out. 1
KBarletta Posted March 1, 2018 Posted March 1, 2018 Yeah, we all will need more to go on that this short story. You need to make some moves and see how she responds. Then we can give you better advice. However, I'm curious, why do these certain people not like you and what are they going to tell her?
CrazyKatLady Posted March 1, 2018 Posted March 1, 2018 I didn't know large pupils were an indicator that a woman is interested in a man...I'll have to check in the mirror the next time I am around a guy I am interested in... sometimes I have been attracted to a man while in a relationship with someone and couldn't really help that the other person and I had chemistry--but I would never have acted on it, just always ignored it, and let it go the minute I was out of their presence... so...it could be you will never really know what she is thinking/feeling unless you try something with her.
Author crazyguy123 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 So I met this girl at my gym. We've been chatting quite a bit. We do tease each other and such. Occasionally, I'd catch her looking at me then looking away. In addition, she would skip out half way through a gym class or even miss incomplete her workout to join the gym class I would be doing. There was a gym event and I had asked her if she was going attend. She replied with "Unfortunately, I can't. I made plans. We can go out another time though" I didn't fall through with asking her out at that moment because I was kinda in the middle of something. A few days after that, I added her on instagram. Then a few days after that, I liked an old photo that she had posted. Didn't realize that I even liked that photo as I was creeping her profile. Did I mess up?
d0nnivain Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 I don't think you messed up (unless she sees all this fretting you are doing. If it's just us, well that is part of what LS is for). Rehearse in your head how you will ask her out. Next time you see her in the gym, ask. Very simple. Straightforward. Bold without being creepy. Fingers crossed for you.
BarbedFenceRider Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 Nope. Making yourself overly "available" would be messing that up. I take it, you want to try and date this girl? I'd say, next time you SEE her at the gym. Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee afterwards. If she needs a different date, get the phone number and try one more time a different day. Then if not, she isn't interested and you can move along. Playing it cool and being indifferent. Other girls will be watching. I have noticed this as well in the gym scenario...I call this "peacocking". They try everything to get the attention of men at the gym, and get other girls into a established hierarchy thingy...It's hilarious.
basil67 Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 I have noticed this as well in the gym scenario...I call this "peacocking". They try everything to get the attention of men at the gym, and get other girls into a established hierarchy thingy...It's hilarious. Seriously? Glad I go to the gym in the middle of the day when it's mostly mums and old people. 2
canadaman817 Posted March 12, 2018 Posted March 12, 2018 You haven't done anything wrong. I have accidentally liked peoples' personal things on social media in the past without meaning to, but it definitely doesn't turn you into a creeper or automatically break trust. If you two are interested in each other, it definitely shouldn't be an issue. Have you thought about asking her to go somewhere with you other than the gym? It might be good to just casually go for coffee or to a restaurant somewhere where you can get to know each other better and focus on something other than the gym. This could help you gauge the possibility of a relationship better. Just remember to be respectful of her boundaries. Wishing you the best as you go forward!
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