matty145 Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 So this girl really only likes me for my attention, she thinks I'm cute, but really only leads me on. Is it possible to have sex with this girl? How should I deal with her? She's very attractive.
alphamale Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 if you are very attractive too then by all means have sex with her
Author matty145 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 I had the opportunity to a long time ago and I blew it, now she just leads me on. Is there any recovering from this?
CollegeKid101 Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 I had the opportunity to a long time ago and I blew it, now she just leads me on. Is there any recovering from this? Are you in college? Do you go to bars and see her? Have you ever had sex?
Author matty145 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 Are you in college? Do you go to bars and see her? Have you ever had sex? In college, I see her at parties every now and then, and yes.
act00 Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 If she's flirting and leading you on, sex won't be on the table, but she'll sure keep you on the hook for thinking you can get it. Are either of you considering genuine feelings and long-term, or is your only goal to get into her pants? What do you mean by you blew it? Look, if she's not interested in you as a mate, and she gave you every opportunity to bounce her "a long time ago," and now she's toying with you, she sounds like she's not worth your time, even if you're only interested in a screw. She sounds manipulative and insecure. Enjoy the flirt and find someone else more genuine and confident.
preraph Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 When you say she thinks you're cute do you mean attractive or cute like her little brother? If you don't mind losing her friendship in case it all goes badly, you should just take her out and act like her date and try kissing her. If you are afraid of losing her as a friend, then don't. If I were you, unless she's been clear she's not going to kiss you, I'd kiss her.
Author matty145 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 She sounds manipulative and insecure. Right you are.
Author matty145 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 When you say she thinks you're cute do you mean attractive or cute like her little brother? If you don't mind losing her friendship in case it all goes badly, you should just take her out and act like her date and try kissing her. If you are afraid of losing her as a friend, then don't. If I were you, unless she's been clear she's not going to kiss you, I'd kiss her. Well I've kissed her in the past but as of recent history she won't let me kiss her...
hercules22 Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 time to let her go then i would start ignoring her
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 Well I've kissed her in the past but as of recent history she won't let me kiss her... Was she intoxicated when you kissed her? Or when she wouldn't let you?
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