Charlotte30 Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 If the man has 4 kids aged 16,9,10,and 2 with three different mothers and the woman he’s dating has 6 kids aged 17,16,14,10,9, and 8 with 4 different dads? What are the pros or cons.. it’s not me I’m asking for a friend
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 Hard? Try impossible if they are good parents. 2
Gaeta Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 They both proven to make bad decisions in picking partners so the chances of it working is low. 2
act00 Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 That's a lot of kids and a lot of parents and two people who make poor choices in partners, birth control, and breeding. Sorry, but that's a lot of kids to blend into a family, and it won't be an easy process to be sure, and seriously expensive. That's 10 kids ranging from 17 to 2 years old and I'm guessing the two of them will mix some genes together as well...where will they sleep? 1
JuneL Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 Whoever these two adults decide to date, can you urge them to be extremely cautious with using contraceptives from now on? 5
thefooloftheyear Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 As long as they have a maid named Alice... TFY 4
LivingWaterPlease Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 Sounds to me as if how to date with that many kids is the least of this couple's problems! 2
alphamale Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 If the man has 4 kids aged 16,9,10,and 2 with three different mothers and the woman he’s dating has 6 kids aged 17,16,14,10,9, and 8 with 4 different dads? What are the pros or cons.. it’s not me I’m asking for a friend good luck getting this man and woman together 1
Purrrfect Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 (edited) So there is 7 different mothers and dads to deal with. Oh hell no. Sounds like total chaos. In addition to housing and money issues on both sides. I dated a guy briefly last year that had 3 kids with 3 women. I have 2 kids with 1 man. He had 2 child support orders and the visitation schedule was chaotic. Edited March 6, 2018 by Purrrfect 2
preraph Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 I don't see how either of them have energy to date. 1
Author Charlotte30 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 What was some of the issues that came up with the guy u dated if you don’t mind me asking @purrrfect
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 So there is 7 different mothers and dads to deal with. Omg....total chaos is right. There's no way the kids would still remain the priority if dating was added to this mix! 1
Gaeta Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 What was some of the issues that came up with the guy u dated if you don’t mind me asking @purrrfect The guy has custody of any of his kids? Does he pay child support to any of the moms? How often does he gets his kids? As for the woman in this story with 6 kids she should forget dating for now. Her job is to raise those children now that she has brought them into this world. She needs to be home each night to prepare following day lunches and assist all those kids with their homework. It's too late for both of them to think dating. They had to think about it before making babies left and right with every person crossing their path. Sorry to be judgemental but children aren't kittens you pop out and then go 'dating' 3
Author Charlotte30 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 The father gets two of his kids every other weekend and the other 2 maybe once a month or when he feels like it(sad I know) and he pays child support for all 4
Author Charlotte30 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 All the kids live with their mothers he doesn’t have custody of any of them
Gaeta Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 All the kids live with their mothers he doesn’t have custody of any of them If I were a single mom raising a bunch of kids with no help from the dads I would not go date another dead-beat-dad that doesn't take care of his kids. 2
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 All the kids live with their mothers he doesn’t have custody of any of them Well, then I guess he has plenty of time to date. The woman in this situation, not so much. And she shouldn't be choosing this dead-beat dad to spend her time with anyway. Her kids need her more than this dude. He'd probably get sick of having way more free time than her anyway since he doesn't have custody of his kids....and I assume she does? 1
Author Charlotte30 Posted March 6, 2018 Author Posted March 6, 2018 She has custody of her kids but she always have her oldest watch the rest of her kids because she’s always with him and she works two jobs a restaurant and she’s also a stripper
Gaeta Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 She has custody of her kids but she always have her oldest watch the rest of her kids because she’s always with him and she works two jobs a restaurant and she’s also a stripper She lives in a trailer park too? Poor kids. Amazes me it takes a license to own a dog but not to make children. 2
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 She has custody of her kids but she always have her oldest watch the rest of her kids because she’s always with him and she works two jobs a restaurant and she’s also a stripper This tells us all we need to know about this "mother." Those poor kids . 2
Fair Posted March 6, 2018 Posted March 6, 2018 Sounds like hell, but Let them figure it out. No offense, but don't you have enough worries of your own?
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