livinglife2019 Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 My ex and I have been broken up for some time, since the break up we've hooked up and hung out a few times. He texted me Friday night saying he was unwell while I was out and I agreed to meet him to cheer him up. I don't remember much of the Friday night as I was pretty drunk, except we had a laugh Together. I spent Friday, Saturday and most of Sunday with him. It was the most fun and relaxing experience I've ever had. We didn't leave his place except to go get food for dinner, we cooked together, watched movies, played games and cuddled it was really enjoyable. he even said it himself that he had a great time and felt a million times better. My phone died and he didn't have a charger to fit so for the entire weekend he had my complete attention with no distractions. I really enjoyed myself we chatted for hours, really got to talking. I did mention I understood the reason for the break up. I apologised for rushing things and wanting to put a label on things when we where together and that we both had issues. And that I was working on mine. I feel like we really did connect. More than we did when we where together. We did have sex once but the rest of the time we just enjoyed each other's company and just being ourselves. I don't know what to do now though, I would happily give it another go and let it blossom on its own opposed to the first time, where I wanted to rush to put a label on things. What should I do?
Young mind Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 If it feels right, WHY NOT?, have a good time, and slowly you will see how it goes, doesn't really help to over analyze
d0nnivain Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 First you need to find out what he wants. When you dated before you said you rushed things. Now that you are giving him the GF experience w/o the commitment, what exactly do you think you are doing now? You wanted more then you had before & now you are getting even less. How is that beneficial to you? 2
Zahara Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 Is this the ex that told you he was breaking up with you because he didn’t see a future with you along with your other thread of constantly hooking up? I’d say he likes the benefits without the commitment. But just to be sure, instead of asking us, you should ask him. You seem to keep yourself in limbo rather than being proactive and taking control of your actions and your next steps. 1
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