knight192 Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 Why projecting yourself after few dates freaks out most women ? (when if you do it means you are very interested in her)
Author knight192 Posted March 4, 2018 Author Posted March 4, 2018 Like after she told you she is interested in a musical theme that will take place in 6 month time, you would book the tickets for example (after 1 date)
SevenCity Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 Because women fall in love slowly over time. They want the love story, they want the honeymoon period, they want you to like them as a person. After one date you are in no position to determine you are or will be a couple. Women need to build up to that. Moreover, it makes you come across as desperate which is a turn off. In her mind she's thinking what's wrong with this guy that he is willing to commit after a few hours of knowing me? The only analogy I can think of for a guy is if she told you she wanted to have your babies as the end of the first date. 1
Author knight192 Posted March 4, 2018 Author Posted March 4, 2018 but that also mean they could miss out some guys that are clumsy or not great "woman talker"
SevenCity Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 but that also mean they could miss out some guys that are clumsy or not great "woman talker" It happens all the time. They don't care because they don't find clumsy guys attractive. I've honed my game the last 1.5 years I've been dating since my last serious RL. it's helped me get sufficent sex and keep women interested. It's a skill worth learning. 1
rightondude Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 People with high self esteem aren't desperate and find clingyness to be a sign of that. No one respects someone that kisses their ass. Also a lot of people don't like themselves and find it strange and off putting when someone they hardly know is all into them (i.e. they think there's something wrong with you for being that into them).
Brieanna Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 (edited) Like after she told you she is interested in a musical theme that will take place in 6 month time, you would book the tickets for example (after 1 date) I would find this to be a turn off because it means you are making lots of assumptions. Connections take time to develop. If you are not allowing things to develop naturally, then it would feel to me that getting to know me deeper and build a connection and relationship is irrelevant to you. I would feel you are not too concerned with the reality of what we have as much as your concern for the hope of what you wish we have potential for. (It feels selfish as it is about what “you want.”). I rather someone more open to “what IS” and can enjoy the moment for the sake of the moment. Someone ok to allow our connection to grow at the pace it will grow and attentive enough to listen to where we are at with things...responding accordingly. More blunt... you cannot posssibly know after ONE date that in 6 months time I will want to date you or you date me. We are still virtual strangers and in a a getting to know each other stage. To behave as tho we know each other....can be downright creepy/scarey! Edited March 4, 2018 by Brieanna
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