Flame Aura Posted March 10, 2018 Posted March 10, 2018 Alright, so I think I'm about as confused as I've been in my life after what transpired in class today. She comes into class with her entourage group of girlfriends, and she had the worst look on her face I've seen, almost like she dreaded seeing me again. Some have suggested that I read way into her actions, so in an attempt to fix that, I didn't stress about it one bit. I sat by myself and was chatting with my friend, until she and her entourage call me over and asked if I wanted to sit with them. It might've been a requirement that we sit with our group members so that we can work together...who knows. Anyway, so I sit with them, and this is where things get interesting. I started chatting up with a girl in her entourage who sat beside me, though she was the one to initiate all dialogue. We talked and laughed, and pretty soon, all the girls chimed in except her, and she just kept turning around and looking at me with this weird look right in front of me. Again, not thinking too much of it. Pretty soon, class is over and she didn't say a single word, almost like she felt left out. I didn't know how to include her, I just smiled whenever she kept turning around to look at me. Feeling bad, I just made short dialogue with her, like reminding her about an assignment due next week. Because her name wasn't called during attendance, I even politely offered to let the teacher know she was here, but she declined and kept on stroking my arm on her way out. I know I should not be looking too much into this, but I just can't help but to wonder here...what she's trying to do here, what with all the disgusted looks, to the hard stares and eventually the touching. I know you are still pretty young and I'm assuming inexperienced with girls. We were all like that at one point. So take this advice from someone who's been there done that: The only way to find out if someone is interested in you is.... to ask them (out). Not analyse the way she looks at you. Or where she sits. Or how her friends act with you. Next time you see her, just ask her to meet you at a specific place on a specific date to do a specific thing. Eg. You wanna grab a drink together on Friday at (local bar)? Her reply will tell you all you need to know about her interest level. Saves you being so confused by her actions.
preraph Posted March 10, 2018 Posted March 10, 2018 ^ He already did. She made some excuse, what he calls a soft no. 1
Author bmne90 Posted March 16, 2018 Author Posted March 16, 2018 So turns out everyone was indeed right. Earlier today, I took the subway home with her and two of her friends in class. I was convinced that she was not interested in me, and all the advice given to me on here came out to be 100% true. However, her actions as of late seemed to be odd. I know I stopped reading into her every little action, but things just got to the point where I had to know for sure. She would be doing things like striking up conversations in all of our group chats with me, playfully stroking my arm in class, and keep staring at me like she wanted me to talk to her. So long story short, after taking the subway, as we were getting off I got a minute with her and I asked what she's doing today after class. She just said she's going home and getting some food later on at night. I asked her what's her weekend plans, and she also said she's staying home and chilling. So that's where I just asked her, how about we hang out sometime? And then she replied, "sure, ask them if they want to as well..." (referring to her friends) Welp, onto the next one huh? I just felt like why lead me on, or do all these things when clearly she's not interested? I had a sneaking suspicion that she was only using me for homework, but I just couldn't believe she'd be someone who'd take it that far. On the bright side, at least I got my answer and will no longer be wondering anymore lol. My only question is how do I even go back to class next time without feeling awkward and with all her friends possibly knowing? Feels so awkward and terrible.
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