phoenix_7 Posted February 27, 2018 Posted February 27, 2018 We like each other, flirted a little, and casually see each other for a couple of months. We are not dating though, more on..."crushing", if there is such a thing. Both of us came out from bad relationships and we're just taking it slow going with the flow. Recently, I had a minor family crises and asked for his support. He told me to hang in there, but after that i noticed that he started avoiding me. I know for a fact that he is not seeing someone else. I am feeling a little bad about his attitude. Why is this?
act00 Posted February 27, 2018 Posted February 27, 2018 What constitutes a "crushing" relationship? Do you date? Do you kiss? Sleep together? Talk regularly? Is there actual friendship? Is it simply an issue of flirting at work or school, when you happen to be near each other? It seems as though maybe when expecting or asking for support, things simply got too serious, and he's still raw from his breakup and doesn't want serious. He wants the fun flirtations, not the seriousness of a relationship, and I don't know if you were a dramatic mess over this crisis, but it might have been too much to handle. That's not to say your reactions are wrong, but it could be a level of emotion and drama he doesn't want. It could be that he doesn't know what to say or how to handle the situation, so he avoids. Again, he might just want the flirting and not the serious.
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