linzartrax Posted February 27, 2018 Posted February 27, 2018 (edited) No need to tell me I am silly. And know that I am not invested in this relationship at all. I just want to hear some opinions. I hooked up with a guy last Friday after a night out with friends at the bar. Funny guy, older than me by a few years, similar tastes and interests. I'm coming out of a long, dry spell which I used to work on myself and get comfortable with my body again. The morning after was a little rough, but he asked if I wanted to get coffee. So we hung out afterward for a couple of hours, discussed going swimming (but our schedules weren't going to allow it that afternoon), learned a little more about each other. On three occasions, he grabbed me and kissed me. I was into it. I kinda liked this guy. He was fun and interesting to me. He took my phone and put his number in. We texted a little bit later that day and the next day. He said we should hang out again. I didn't commit to anything because then it wouldn't be a one night stand and I don't know what it would be if it's not that. Today he sent me a message while I was at work and asked what I was doing for dinner. I told him I didn't have anything interesting planned. I asked "Are you asking to get some dinner with me tonight?" And he never responded. I sent one at the end of the night saying, "You left me hangin'" Still no reply. So what's up with that? I've never been ghosted after a one night stand/maybe friendship/hangout. I don't know - is the water too murky? Edited February 27, 2018 by linzartrax
Flame Aura Posted February 27, 2018 Posted February 27, 2018 Nobody knows what he is thinking or what happened to him. As you gave it up on the first night maybe he just wanted to meet up and sleep with you again and got scared off when you suggested going for dinner. Or maybe it was something else. Either way if he doesnt reply in the next day then that says it all. 1
Author linzartrax Posted February 27, 2018 Author Posted February 27, 2018 So an hour later. He says he never received a reply. We exchange screen shots and it's true, he never received it. We made plans to go out to eat later in the week. Texting sucks.
Author linzartrax Posted February 27, 2018 Author Posted February 27, 2018 I read a few other posts very similar to mine after posting. And I just thought, "No one will know what he's thinking." It's sort of nerve wracking to try to figure it out. So I went about my evening and let it go. I think that's the only way to figure this sort of thing out. I'll say it again...texting sucks.
joseb Posted February 27, 2018 Posted February 27, 2018 I read a few other posts very similar to mine after posting. And I just thought, "No one will know what he's thinking." It's sort of nerve wracking to try to figure it out. So I went about my evening and let it go. I think that's the only way to figure this sort of thing out. I'll say it again...texting sucks. Stop doing it then! Call him. Or meet up and talk then. If i do text, I prefer apps like WhatsApp, as they have a bit more guarantee of delivery, and read status than SMS. 2
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