FredJones80 Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 Hi All, I joined this forum nearly 4 years ago after a bad break-up. A break up of a relationship of around 11 years. Just a short update. It took me about 6 months to heal fully, which is pretty good for a long relationship, this forum helped massively. Follow the NC guide, stick to it, NC, NC, NC - it's the answer! I spent 3 months crying every night and the next 3 recovering, 6 months total using NC! So 4 years on, what's happend? I found a new girl, I got married, I'm living in a totally different country. I went travelling for over a year. I'm happy! None of these things would have happend had I 1) Stayed in the original relationship and 2) Not followed the advice of this forum and healed to move on. For all of those of you who've recently broken up... IT GETS BETTER!. Trust me, I've been there. It was hell. But, now my life is different, my life is better. Good luck guys and girls! (and if you're wondering, I never once heard from her. However, I did change my number within a few months and moved area) 11
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