Let's keep it a secr Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 So basically I met a girl on a dating site we spoke for a bit on there before we moved onto social media, we started out talking about the general things work, hobbies, etc etc then as we got too know each other better we had tons of stuff in common more so then any other girl I've spoken too so we clicked really well we shared pics of the naughty kind flirted alot and were really into each other and so we arranged too meet up. But me and my then ex now current girl friend were still talking staying friends due too mutal friends and work, and a few days ago we ended up getting back together because we do still love each other. So I naturally did the right thing and tell this other girl how I got back with my ex and she was devastated and told me i made her cry I obviously did what I could and try too make it as less painfull as possible she ended up blocking me. And now I feel horrible so guilty and upset and kinda regret I didn't choose her which makes the guilt worse. I would never cheat on my gf but why do I feel this bad yes I've rejected people in the past it's sucked but never this bad
Young mind Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 If you look deeply, is it really regret and guilt you feel?
marky00 Posted February 23, 2018 Posted February 23, 2018 You know what it could be.... the fact you hurt someone due to going back to your Ex who probably hasn't treated you well and deep down you probably have doubts a second try at things will work. I faced a similar situation once and the advise i got at the time was that both girls were wrong for me. And boy was that advise correct. You are probably infatuated with your ex or attracted to her in a toxic way. You get the drug fix by going back to her. But deep down you recognise she's not a nice person or at least not compatible with you. Yet you have chosen her anyway and dumped the new girl. Neither of these girls are the one. If either of them were, you wouldn't be feeling bad about your decision.
Author Let's keep it a secr Posted February 23, 2018 Author Posted February 23, 2018 (edited) My ex now gf didn't treat me bad it was me who originally ended it I called it off due too personal reasons. And I've hurt people in the past we all do unfortunately. And my intent when I joined the dateing site was just too look for friends I put that in my profile as too not give people the wrong idea Edited February 23, 2018 by Let's keep it a secr
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