todreaminblue Posted February 22, 2018 Posted February 22, 2018 Hi, Thank you for your advice. I have ended the relationship with him today. I actually told him how I was feeling and his reaction was, ' go get a hold of yourself and stop being a drama queen'. He told me I was over reacting and that I had no reason to feel as such. I am looking forward to the future now, it doesn't seem as dark and worrying anymore. hmmm....i was once told by a guy that i was a drama queen .....the fact was i was depressed and i thought i had made him uncomfortable, therefore wrecked a possible friendship so i apologised profusely and he told me basically to shut up i was being a drama queen and didnt want a friendship with me....i was actually going through a lot at the time as well as being clinically depressed,.....but in saying all that i dont feel he was ok himself..still isn tok...i actually worry about him a fair bit.......he has a fair amount of social anxiety....and also mental health issues....i believe he may be on the aspergers spectrum and had limited contact or understanding of how to communicate with women....if you get him to talk about his passions though...its extremely pleasant and nice to talk to him.... i hope you don't take what your ex said personally and start over analysing what you say or do with future dates...just be you.... i believe your now ex has some possible issues....and as i posted before was not right for you.... i forgave my guy by the way...he never apologised......i don't think he even remembers.....some men can be a bit clueless when it comes to communication with women i am glad you ended it and i wish you much luck in the future with dating... all the best ...:0)......deb
snowboy91 Posted February 22, 2018 Posted February 22, 2018 Hi, thank you for the advice. It did help me. I have ended the relationship today. I told him how I felt and he completely disregarded my feeling and told me I shouldn't be feeling any of these things. He said I was a drama queen and ranted some other things. It does feel like a weight has been lifted. You sound surprisingly positive. He definitely wasn't the right guy for you if that's how you feel. Good luck! 1
heavenonearth Posted February 22, 2018 Posted February 22, 2018 Just playing devil's advocate... is he maybe autistic? He sounds a bit like someone with Aspergers. Either way: you are not a good match - your needs are not met. You should end it . 1
joseb Posted February 22, 2018 Posted February 22, 2018 Just playing devil's advocate... is he maybe autistic? He sounds a bit like someone with Aspergers. Either way: you are not a good match - your needs are not met. You should end it . Yeah there is definitely something pretty wrong with this guy. Good for you op that you dumped him. Make sure you block him and forget about him.
todreaminblue Posted February 22, 2018 Posted February 22, 2018 Just playing devil's advocate... is he maybe autistic? He sounds a bit like someone with Aspergers. Either way: you are not a good match - your needs are not met. You should end it . ive got a few aspergers friends and they are very blunt often rude(dont mean to be) and dont have a good social understanding or good people skills and also a very high pain thresh hold........they are however extremely honest and say they are thinking straight up.......i agree heaven on earth he could very well be....deb
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