gimlynick Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 Hey all! 14 days ago I went skiing, I met an amazing girl ( 22 yrs old , I am 25 ), who's from my region. We fell very hard for eachother. When we were back home we immediately dated and the connection still was insane. We were allready madly in love ( there really was something like love at first sight the first time we met... Never felt this before ). She does very high end studies, I work for the government, have a very decent job but do not have university studies. She told me that it can be an issue for her daddy that I did not study. This weekend she told her dad about it... He freaked out, told her that he's disapointed and he doesn't stand behind this... She is completely upset and told it right away to me... Yesterday we met again, had an insane night but well... It was the last one. We both were crying over there, she told me that she is really crazy about me but that she can't do it because of her dad. When she was 18 she started something with a normal guy behind his back, and he threw her out of the house for a month... So she is scared to loose his fundings, his love... You have to know that her mom died when she was 6 weeks old, probably because of the pregnancy. Her dad raised her alone for 18 years... Offcourse he is superprotective towards her... He only wants her to bring in very high educated men ( meds, ingeneers,... ). She told me there is no other option... She really is mind****ed because of him... Believe me there is no other reason then her dad... She really thinked about the worst case scenario ( her father dumping her and she living in my place ) but this is not an option because of her studies that require a lot of money, time and focus... Anyway, I needed to vent out over here. It's the end, but we both feel like it's not the end at all... This is so bad :/
Rainah Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 Are you sure she is over the age of 18? She is an adult her dad should not control her love life, what does he expect her to never have a relationship ever at all? This sounds more than just being over protective of his daughter.
Author gimlynick Posted February 20, 2018 Author Posted February 20, 2018 Are you sure she is over the age of 18? She is an adult her dad should not control her love life, what does he expect her to never have a relationship ever at all? This sounds more than just being over protective of his daughter. Exactly, it's completely ridiculous. Well her dad wants her to start something with some high end class person... And exactly my thoughts. She is not 18 anymore, she has the right to chooce whoever she wants. I could understand her dad if I were an addict or something... Oh, and to the person responding '14 days'... Yeah ridiculous right... I know this sounds childish and immature. In a certain way it probably is. But well the connection was there just right away. We both never had this before so hard and so quickly. Now it feels like a huge missed opportunity.
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