Riot21 Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 My ex 24/M and me 24/F dated for a while. We broke up and now he is seeing another girl pretty regularly but says he doesn't think they will last. He says they aren't compatible but he has a decent time with her at times but not nearly as much fun as we used to have. He says it won't work between us because we fight often. He says he wants to wait and see how we feel about each other in a year but until then no contact. He asks me if I am happy with my life and he tells me his life is going kinda slow right now. He refuses to add this new girl on Facebook and he adds everyone on Facebook. One week he tells me he goes out and tries to get laid downtown and another week he tells me he and her are exclusive. He makes me feel like I am crazy and that's the reason he lies constantly. He had sex with me and after told me that he felt guilty because he and that girl were exclusive which was news to me. He says he doesn't like this girl much but he hangs with her often like once a week. His family hasn't met her and they don't plan on meeting her anytime soon he says. He says this girl really really likes him but he is kinda whatever about her. I asked when he saw her last and he lied. I know because we have mutual friends and I saw them together in a Snapchat. I asked him like five times to give him a chance to tell me the truth and he lied about it. Why does this girl get the special guy and not me? Or is he even special? **TDLR ex is with a girl he doesn't care about apparently and wants to make it work with me if our issues were resolved but in the meantime he wants us to mature. I need advice as to how he is treating me so I can see if he is treating me right or wrong**
Author Riot21 Posted February 20, 2018 Author Posted February 20, 2018 This is all stuff he said months ago but he still talks my social media every single day
dumbass2 Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 Well, yes he is treating you bad and he's not special so take him off that pedestal you have him on. He said NC for a year so do that. Unfriend him on Facebook and don't reply to him any more. He's treating you like crap. Stop taking it. Stop letting him think you're just waiting for him to take you back. You should no longer be an option for him.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 Why does this girl get the special guy and not me? Or is he even special? What special guy? This dude is very low-caliber. If you consider him special, you need to rethink your definition of "special." Raise your standards, girl. Delete him off all social media and stop letting him play you for a fool.
HumanMachine Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 This is all stuff he said months ago but he still talks my social media every single day Block him then you aren’t his emotional tampon
Author Riot21 Posted February 20, 2018 Author Posted February 20, 2018 He gets so upset when I block him and he calls me names like immature and unstable. I just am so fed up with him lying to me and when I address it he was likewell you lied the whole time in our relationship! And I was like okay you're addressing something that happened over three years ago and I have done what I can to get your trust back.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 He gets so upset when I block him and he calls me names like immature and unstable. I just am so fed up with him lying to me and when I address it he was likewell you lied the whole time in our relationship! And I was like okay you're addressing something that happened over three years ago and I have done what I can to get your trust back. Again, you need higher standards. Why would even consider staying touch with a loser like this? You need to move on. This is very dysfunctional.
Author Riot21 Posted February 20, 2018 Author Posted February 20, 2018 How is he a loser? Everything is my fault. I sent some stupid texts to my girlfriend about me liking this guy sexually and my ex broke into my apartment and found the messages from like two years ago when I said that and says that I was a terrible lying person through the whole relationship.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 How is he a loser? Everything is my fault. I sent some stupid texts to my girlfriend about me liking this guy sexually and my ex broke into my apartment and found the messages from like two years ago when I said that and says that I was a terrible lying person through the whole relationship. There's your answer. That and the fact that he is obviously playing you and his current girlfriend. That makes him a loser, too. Keep this up if you want, but there is no future here. Only more heartbreak for you, for a guy that I wouldn't even let take me to Ikea for a 50-cent cone. Seriously. I wouldn't touch him with a ten-foot pole.
Author Riot21 Posted February 20, 2018 Author Posted February 20, 2018 But I'm a bad person for texting my friend that
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