blue19 Posted February 19, 2018 Posted February 19, 2018 So after a year of relationship I had to finally end up things with my boyfriend, I caught him more than 10 times texting other women , asking women out for a drink , lunch or simply picking and buying them drinks at a bar . One time he brought a women home and she slept at his apartment few times , I spoke to her and she said it was more like party time and that they never had sexual contact, but he denied being with me and in a way he gave her “wings “ that maybe something was going to happen between them . One day (just to mention a few things) I left his place at 5am because I live in Miami he in Naples and I found out that he was texting someone at 10:30 am that same day to ask her out for dinner . Another occasion I found out he was making plans to meet women in Warsaw the same day I was coming back home . And the last thing was finding out he meet a women on a bar and introduced one of our mutual friends as his uncle , this happened on a Saturday , they texted all Sunday and he actually told her that he was going to be out for a week but as soon as he was back in town he was going to text her . In fact he texted her from my apartment we were leaving to Cancun the following Monday . He says just because he is Muscian this is his life , women will be always around and that texting other women without the interest of dating or having sex is OK ! He claims that I’m jealous to the extreme and that he has done nothing wrong because he did it sleep with other women. I’m starting to believe I’m wrong , seriously I need another opinion here
Rainah Posted February 19, 2018 Posted February 19, 2018 What he is doing is wrong, its best it is over, this is disrespect to you. He should be spending time with you not texting other women while with you or meeting other women clearly taken them on dates. All this interest he is putting into other women should be on you. No its not the life of a musician it is plain disrespect.
d0nnivain Posted February 19, 2018 Posted February 19, 2018 He did everything wrong. You are not jealous to the extreme. He is insensitive & selfish. You are well rid of him. 1
CaliBabe Posted February 19, 2018 Posted February 19, 2018 You're starting to believe you are wrong? Seriously? You know damn well you deserve better than that. If you feel like you don't you need to work on your self esteem. 2
Author blue19 Posted February 19, 2018 Author Posted February 19, 2018 I do strongly believe that what I did was right , but he just says nothing is wrong he actually said that me and his family were the most important in his life , that I’m his first girlfriend and that we doesn’t know how to behave in a relationship, that basically he was “BAD “ before he meet me and that since we are together he hasn’t had sex with another women
Author blue19 Posted February 19, 2018 Author Posted February 19, 2018 You're starting to believe you are wrong? Seriously? You know damn well you deserve better than that. If you feel like you don't you need to work on your self esteem. Is not that , it’s just the fact that he doesn’t knowledge the fact he is wrong what bothers me , and yes I’m a way I was thinking if I was wrong and over controlling and jealous
HumanMachine Posted February 19, 2018 Posted February 19, 2018 This guy sounds like he raps for a living
NopeNah Posted February 19, 2018 Posted February 19, 2018 I'm friends with some pretty famous singers/musicians and if they're in a relationship, they don't text other women for food and drinks. That's crazy talk!
CaliBabe Posted February 19, 2018 Posted February 19, 2018 Is not that , it’s just the fact that he doesn’t knowledge the fact he is wrong what bothers me , and yes I’m a way I was thinking if I was wrong and over controlling and jealous Thing is we can't control what other people think. Its not possible. If he does not see this is wrong then that is what he thinks. What you can control is how you react to it. How you want to respond. Be confident that you are not being unreasonable or over controlling and jealous. Be confident in your thoughts and choices. It shows that you know what you want and you are clear about your boundaries. You are right here. 1
Author blue19 Posted February 19, 2018 Author Posted February 19, 2018 This guy sounds like he raps for a living Honestly he is a Pitbull wannabe he thinks he is going to make it 1
Veronica73 Posted February 20, 2018 Posted February 20, 2018 I only read your first post, not the rest of the thread. But that’s unnecessary. Because you are completely right and deserve somebody better. Dump him and move on. He is an ass.
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