dd1463 Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Hello... I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now... A few hours ago we were both virgins... I think we still are lol... Jr (Penis) was hard as a rock... then I asked her if I could get a condom... she said she wanted to but she was really scare... so at this point I told her only if she was ready... while this was happening Jr started falling a sleep on me... a few minutes later she says... "Ok... get the condom"... so here I go and Jr doesn’t want to wake up... If that normal? After like 10 minutes of trying to wake Jr up he finally wakes up only like half way....but every time I tried to put it in it just wouldn’t go in... I think that was because he was not fully awake... Is that normal? I mean... in the past... he stays so hard and never goes down... why is it that when she tells me she is ready Jr just falls a sleep on me???? In the end... i think i got it in like twice... lol
kitkat826 Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Perhaps you subconsciously were nervous or scared? I wouldn't jump to any conclusions until you have tried some moe.
Author dd1463 Posted August 27, 2005 Author Posted August 27, 2005 Oh relax, have a sense of humor. I’m just trying to make my post a little more interesting. You’ll be surprise how many men treat their penis like a person of their own. I think all men have a name for their penis… we don’t just go around calling it “my penis”… My 2 cents.
Art_Critic Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer I am concerned about your maturity level based on the fact that you talk about your penis as if it were another person and not part of your body. I don't think you are ready to handle a sexual relationship. Just my 2 cents. coming from the woman that talks about how pretty her pus*y is.. jk Haven't you ever heard someone call their guy .. Mr Happy ? Or his nutz the boys ?? To the OP.. Yes it is normal
elijahBailey Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Originally posted by dd1463 I think all men have a name for their penis… we don’t just go around calling it “my penis”… :lmao: you kidding me right??
alphamale Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Originally posted by dd1463 Is that normal? I mean... in the past... he stays so hard and never goes down... why is it that when she tells me she is ready Jr just falls a sleep on me???? yes its normal, its called "performance anxiety" Originally posted by elijahBailey :lmao: you kidding me right?? nope E.B., mine is called Mr. Wiggly
elijahBailey Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Originally posted by 933KJL I call mine Mr. Softee! LOL Originally posted by alphamale nope E.B., mine is called Mr. Wiggly :lmao: you guys are killing me :lmao:
Author dd1463 Posted August 27, 2005 Author Posted August 27, 2005 I call mine King Kong at times... except yesterday lol.... me and my girlfriend were screaming at him last night... asking him why is it that when we decide to lose our virginities he wants to sleep! I think another reason why this happened to me last night is because before she told me to get the condom she got really sensitive on me... she started crying and said she didn’t know why. She said everything seemed too good to be true and that it scared her sometimes... at this time I started crying too and I believe this is the reason why he didn’t want to wake up again.
933KJL Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Let's get Mr. Softee and Princess together! LOL J/K (sort of)
kitkat826 Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Another take on the situation: how many of us would say that we were completely mature with our sexuality when we lost our virginity? I think being comfortable with our bodies is something that is learned through time and experience...and is an evolving, never-ending process. Also, hes a relatively new poster and might feel odd saying these things outright in front of us.
sami Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Don't ever make a big deal out of it. It'll pass away through time
Author dd1463 Posted August 31, 2005 Author Posted August 31, 2005 You need to get over the fact that I call MY DICK "Jr"... Just like the other 3 billion men in this world. lol.....
RainyDayWoman Posted August 31, 2005 Posted August 31, 2005 Don't ever make a big deal out of it. It'll pass away through time so not only does it go to sleep, it will eventually die?!
Art_Critic Posted August 31, 2005 Posted August 31, 2005 If you went to the doctor, would you say, "Junior here has a problem"?? NO. I would .. But I'd do it to be funny.... Hey Doc he keeps spitting up and falls asleep all the time I went thru Invitro several times years ago with my ex wife and I used to cut up with the gyno Dr all time.. You know stuff like " hey doc if ya need any help down there I know it pretty well.. Just ask "
Author dd1463 Posted August 31, 2005 Author Posted August 31, 2005 Funny, sure, but he won't stop calling it Junior - continued use of the 3rd person when talking about a body part is juvenile. Hey, it's just my opinion, ya know? And in my opinion, I think he's too immature to be considering an act that could potentially impregnate someone and/or cause him to catch a lethal STD....not to mention all the heart strings that will be effected. I thank you very much for your worry. It shows you really care lol....
crazy_grl Posted August 31, 2005 Posted August 31, 2005 I'm with Star Gazer on this one. A few "Junior" references to be funny don't make someone immature and unready for sex. But continually talking about the organ as a seperate entity in itself does. I call mine King Kong at times... except yesterday lol.... me and my girlfriend were screaming at him last night... asking him why is it that when we decide to lose our virginities he wants to sleep! I think another reason why this happened to me last night is because before she told me to get the condom she got really sensitive on me... she started crying and said she didn’t know why. She said everything seemed too good to be true and that it scared her sometimes... at this time I started crying too and I believe this is the reason why he didn’t want to wake up again. If you were really ready for sex, you and your gf would have been discussed what was going on with YOU that made you go limp instead of shouting at Mr. Happy like he was an outsider screwing things up. You'd have talked about why you were both crying and how that affected you. I'm sure plenty of us weren't mature enough to handle sex when we lost our virginities, and if somebody had explained that to me at the time, I probably wouldn't have listened either. But I'm pretty sure I'd have been better off if I'd waited.
Art_Critic Posted August 31, 2005 Posted August 31, 2005 I'm sure plenty of us weren't mature enough to handle sex when we lost our virginities, How about using almost all instead of plenty. Sex is an important thing that happens between two people and unfortunately very few of us are mature enough to handle having sex for the first time.. But ya know what ? we did it and the world still goes around.. Lighten up on this guy .. It's all about life. and unless someone can say that they were of the proper maturity to handle sex for the first time . cut him some slack on the JR thing. It's not like he is out gang banging 10-15 girls on the weekend with the thing
crazy_grl Posted August 31, 2005 Posted August 31, 2005 Lighten up on this guy .. It's all about life. I'm just saying that it can't hurt him to wait.
Art_Critic Posted September 1, 2005 Posted September 1, 2005 I'm just saying that it can't hurt him to wait. You have a good point and I seem to have missed it.. sorry crazy..
mixwell Posted September 1, 2005 Posted September 1, 2005 Yeah its normal. like alpha said its performance anxiety. Its weird because with my ex i would be hard and it was great, but with all the other girls I have slept with its the same.. It gets hard for oral sex or anything else but right when I put a condom on and get ready it starts going soft. Its frustrating !! I didn't have that problem when I first had sex with my ex though so I don't know. It happened to me not too long ago actually .. O well just know you aren't the only one out there with that problem.
mixwell Posted September 1, 2005 Posted September 1, 2005 Hey dd how old are you anyways ? You might want to try having your girlfriend go down on you and then put the condom on and continue so you can maintain an erection.. Then just switch to sex quickly but make sure she is lubricated or it could be painful for her.. I had to use that trick a few times and it gets me started.. once I can actually start though i regain an erection.. Don't be an idiot like me though and get a BJ and then start doing it without a condom.
Author dd1463 Posted September 1, 2005 Author Posted September 1, 2005 Don't be an idiot like me though and get a BJ and then start doing it without a condom. AHAHA We talked about the whole situation and worked things out. Yesterday we gave it another try and everything went perfect! MY DICK (So Star doesn’t get angry) didn’t get soft at all this time... I picked her up first thing this morning and we went to Planned Parenthood for some birth control. I'm 18 in 4 days... YAY! Thanks for all the help peeps.
mixwell Posted September 1, 2005 Posted September 1, 2005 Glad it all worked out.. 17 isn't young to have sex.. i lost my virginity when I had just turned 16.. As long as you care about the other person.. Shiz there are girls I knew that were like 14 -15 having sex.. my ex was 15 when we had sex and she lost hers.. So how do you feel not being a virgin anymore ?? haha.. I remember the first time i was thinking wow im not a virgin anymore. haha.. take care, Peace
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