lax16 Posted February 14, 2018 Posted February 14, 2018 I dated pretty intensely for 2.5 months. I wrote a very detailed account in another post if you want to read it. She’s 24 and I’m 28 and the way it happened was she said things were moving too fast and things were getting too serious for what she wants at this time. Well this girl also happens to be my best friend/roommates girlfriends sister. I’ve been no contact since she decided to end things 2.5 weeks ago at this point. Her birthday is coming up in another 2 weeks, not sure if I’ll get some invite to an event for it or not. If I do, how do I handle that? In general, I will be seeing her due to her sister and my friend. How do I handle myself when this happens? Should I just be myself and make like nothing happened between us? Act like I would before we started dating? Be cold? Exchange only pleasantries and quickly find other people to talk to?
springy Posted February 14, 2018 Posted February 14, 2018 If you decide to hang out so soon after the breakup there's no getting around the awkwardness of it. Just be cordial. You don't need to be cold but on the flip side don't be overly/obviously attentive. I'd probably just pass on the group hangouts for awhile if I were you. You are too torn up over this to be around her right now, and it not affect you. She may choose not to be around if she knows you're going to be there and hopefully that would cut down on the uneasiness of the situation.
CantTakeMySmile Posted February 14, 2018 Posted February 14, 2018 You dated two months. You don't do anything different, just be you You can't sweat the small stuff like this!
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