ChatroomHero Posted February 14, 2018 Posted February 14, 2018 I have to say, it seems like a few things are off here. "I find it ironic since she's the one who approached me first. " Her just showing interest doesn't commit her to pine away for you. But just read the rest of what you wrote: "She doesn't know yet, but I dumped my last 3 gf's because they were inconsiderate... I don't put up with too much anymore. If I think they're playing and not being sincere they're gone." "If she needs to see my don't give a crap side,I'm more than happy to oblige." "but the question is should I be a prick and wait a full day to respond back to her or respond back this morning?" "Funny, but it sounds like she needs me more than I need her." "I entertain a whole bar full of people, while she was sitting home on the couch watching television. I have friends up the Wazoo. I don't need anybody." Do you think any of that makes you a good guy with too big of a heart or whatever? You just stated all the reasons you are better than her and she should just pine away for you. What fun a relationship for her it would be with you. If she doesn't please the King, she shall be dealt with swiftly! I mean if you really feel like you are ready to dole out your brand of justice on someone you hardly know because she didn't respond to a text fast enough, you need to take a break and make peace with whatever is making you feel like that. Stop saying you have a big heart and leaving out the part about it being anger filled and ready to punish if you perceive you have been slighted. Whatever girl that screwed you over in your past and made you feel this angry and untrusting, assuming the worst of another woman over the slightest thing like a delayed text response might deserve it, but this girl or any other girl for that matter, doesn't deserve it.
LivingWaterPlease Posted February 14, 2018 Posted February 14, 2018 Vocals5, why don't you start talking to ladies you want to get to know on the phone rather than texting? So many misunderstandings happen because of texting, from what I've observed. For me, texting (other than to convey factual information) is reserved for those I've been in a close relationship with for a long time so if something seems off and I get dropped I don't think the person has intentionally ignored me. One of my grown kids does to me exactly what she did you to, when the kid texts me late at night. I will be texting along in a convo with this person and all of the sudden, crickets. They might even read the text in a stupor and then drop off. Of course I don't worry because it's someone I have a very tight relationship with and know they've just dozed off. I don't see where you've done anything that would even approach stalking someone. And if she said stalkers, that's what she means. Being stalked is awful and it's different than begin admired. Also, no matter how gorgeous she is and how many admirers she must have, she's still looking for "the one." You just might be that one and if you are she'll welcome it! But, yes, bottom line. Call her and talk with her. People are on LS all the time trying to figure out what went wrong in a texting convo. For the most part there's no way to know. If you're talking with someone you have much less misunderstandings. I also think a guy who calls is more attractive than one who texts. To me, it's a more confident intentional way of communicating.
GemmaUK Posted February 14, 2018 Posted February 14, 2018 I don't understand why you've invested in any romantic way about this FB interaction. She contacted you about work, some promo shots. You seem to have read all kinds of things into it.
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