ihatedatingx Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 I am in my 20s and always see this guy at trader joe's and i have such a crush on him. i was in a 5+ year relationship which ended in october, and i finally feel ready to start dating and he has been the only guy I have been interested in since my ex. we always joke around and he is super friendly, but if you know anything about Trader joe's its always packed...so after the small talk and paying i need to get out of the way for the next person so it kind of sucks. Im trying to figure out how i can give him my number without looking like a creep. I'm not realy nervous about him calling or not. i figure i rather just do it and if he calls cool if not then whatever atleast i can move on, but i am nervous about giving him my info lol how should i do it?! One thing i was thinking of is they usually give you a piece of paper to write ur name/number if you bring your own bag to enter a raffle. so i was thinking maybe writing a little note and instead of taking it with me to enter the raffle just hand it back to him. that way he has the info and its discreet and thats that. any other ideas? thoughts on girls giving guys number??
d0nnivain Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 Have the # written down on a paper. Pay for your purchases. When he hands you your change or your card back, exchange it for your number. Wink at him. Say call me some time. Flounce out of the store. 2
smackie9 Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 (edited) How about when he hands over the receipt? and make sure you touch his hand Edited February 9, 2018 by smackie9 2
alphamale Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 Flounce out of the store. whatever this means I would not do it 1
smackie9 Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 whatever this means I would not do it to leave or walk away in a over exaggerated, aggravated angry state.
olivetree Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 thoughts on girls giving guys number?? I have never given my number out, unprompted. I prefer to be the prey than the hunter Good luck! Otherwise I hope there are equally convenient grocery stores for you to shop at... 1
Scarlett.O'hara Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 I'd start by asking him if he is single. After all, just because you are single, doesn't mean he is. Better to check these things first. You will be able to gauge a lot by his reaction. If he looks horrified or uncomfortable, back off. If he he seems receptive, then give him your number or leave it up to him to make the next move. Either way, he will know it is a green light from you. 1
d0nnivain Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 It does mean to leave in an exaggerated way but not an angry one. Sort of a flirty, flighty, walking on air 1
drakon12 Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 I'm wondering if I'm crazy or not because how can I be the only one who sees this option(s)? When you have the chance, create a context for a number exchange. For example: visiting a new coffee shop in town. Ask him if he'd want to come along and if he's into you, offer to exchange numbers.
LivingWaterPlease Posted February 10, 2018 Posted February 10, 2018 I wouldn't give a guy my number without being asked but I would sure pull (and have pulled) out all the stops to get him to ask for it! 2
Chilli Posted February 10, 2018 Posted February 10, 2018 (edited) 5 year relationship that only ended a few mths ago, ahh, your "finally" , ready ? l very much doubt it shouldn't you take some time out for awhile first. The number though , hmm, dunno. Never really had someone hand me their number like that but then women l'd go for wouldn't do that anyway and l'd be asking myself if l wanted it so not sure about that one. Have you wondered why he hasn't asked you for your number yet, think l would be. Scarlett's right you really might wanna be finding that one out first if he's seeing anyone. But if you insist then l'd go with Doni's , and eh who could resist that flounce haha. Edited February 10, 2018 by Chilli
Author ihatedatingx Posted February 10, 2018 Author Posted February 10, 2018 5 year relationship that only ended a few mths ago, ahh, your "finally" , ready ? l very much doubt it shouldn't you take some time out for awhile first. hmm 5-6 months is alot of time to work on myself. you dont really know my situation and considering my ex was with someone right after i think 5 months is a while to not talk to ANYONE and fix myself. but thanks for your opinion.
Author ihatedatingx Posted February 10, 2018 Author Posted February 10, 2018 I'm wondering if I'm crazy or not because how can I be the only one who sees this option(s)? When you have the chance, create a context for a number exchange. For example: visiting a new coffee shop in town. Ask him if he'd want to come along and if he's into you, offer to exchange numbers. i am thinking of doing something like this. i am new in the area so i might ask if he knows of any good places and maybe based on his reaction ask if hed wanna join 1
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