Mizz Layta Posted February 8, 2018 Posted February 8, 2018 Do you expect your MM to spend Valentine's day with you? I've always been alone on Valentine's day so I sent MM a text to see if he wants to spend valentine's day and he hasn't replied Thoughts?
RecentChange Posted February 8, 2018 Posted February 8, 2018 Wouldn't he be spending Valentine's day with his wife? 4
Miss Clavel Posted February 8, 2018 Posted February 8, 2018 it's funny, we were just talking about this. for years i sent my mom, my husband, my sisters and the kids valentines and my coworkers were saying they do the same thing. all that comes to mind is, even tho it ain't Easter, don't put all your eggs in one basket, ever. have a back up plan.
Author Mizz Layta Posted February 8, 2018 Author Posted February 8, 2018 Wouldn't he be spending Valentine's day with his wife? We usually meet during the day so I guess he'll spend with his wife in the evening
denwickdroylsden Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 Usually got together the day before. That's why it's called "Mistress Day."
vanhalenfan Posted February 9, 2018 Posted February 9, 2018 Usually got together the day before. That's why it's called "Mistress Day." Exactly. Just ask any restaurant owner and they'll tell you the day before and the day after V-day is just as busy because all the MM are taking their mistresses out to celebrate on those days! 4
Onlywhenitrains Posted February 10, 2018 Posted February 10, 2018 Never really I cared about the Valentine's Day. When we were together in the A, we did spend it together. It didn't seam it meant much to him either. It's just one day a year. Over-hyped in our consumer society. Always thought I needed something more in my real relationship. Like, coming back home from an exhausting day and having someone to talk to. Not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. Affairs don't provide any of the things relationships between two loving, committed adults do. 1
unconditionallover Posted February 13, 2018 Posted February 13, 2018 I don't expect it but this year he has asked me to have dinner with him and spend a few hours together. Normally I don't do anything for valentines day and I never do gifts or flowers etc
Poppy47 Posted February 13, 2018 Posted February 13, 2018 I don't expect it but this year he has asked me to have dinner with him and spend a few hours together. Normally I don't do anything for valentines day and I never do gifts or flowers etc You should expect to have a lover who will be available to spend the whole night and next day with you. NEVER settle for a few hours. Poppy. 1
unconditionallover Posted February 13, 2018 Posted February 13, 2018 You should expect to have a lover who will be available to spend the whole night and next day with you. NEVER settle for a few hours. Poppy. Haha, that is a sweet thought No way would I have that much time to spend with someone. An evening is already a stretch at this point.
carhill Posted February 13, 2018 Posted February 13, 2018 I always expected MW's to spend V-day with their family. In fact, just today I suggested one rescind her customary practice of ignoring V-day and do something fun, even if simple and inexpensive. Hope she does. After many years of the MW stuff and being married I let go of the human property thing. Love freely and without expectation of future results. Today is the result. Things are probably different for OW's since men are generally the action figures on V-day and women are the recipients, at least in my generation. V-day and Mother's day were for the ladies. The men got Labor Day
Poppy47 Posted February 14, 2018 Posted February 14, 2018 Haha, that is a sweet thought No way would I have that much time to spend with someone. An evening is already a stretch at this point. It isn't a sweet thought... it's probably the best advice you will ever get. Poppy
somanymistakes Posted February 14, 2018 Posted February 14, 2018 Didn't expect anything, got a valentine's card +candy in the mail. (we are not, and never have been, having a physical affair)
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