zanesfan Posted February 6, 2018 Posted February 6, 2018 My wheels are spinning..please help. I'm talking to this great guy who seems to be very responsible and an overall good guy. However, I'm not sure if he is as interested as I am. We talk in some form everyday. As of late, I do most of the initiating via text. He calls me every few days or so. For my birthday, he was the first to text at midnight, he offered to take me out, or cook for me. When I had to go out of town, he suggested we could drive (10 hours) vs me fly but he drive me to the airport (1 hour away) and picked me up. He suggested we could take our kids somewhere in the future. Also, he hasn't tried to do anything sexual or even mentioned anything sexual with me. We also talked about going to the beach in 2 weeks. Am I coming on too strong by texting him first everyday? I suggested he spend the night since I had to leave out and 5 am..instead he went home and came to my house at 5 am to take me to the airport. Should I let him text me more first or maybe have him initiate coming over or going out?
justwhoiam Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 I'm talking to this great guy How did you meet him? Am I coming on too strong by texting him first everyday? Yes. Should I let him text me more first or maybe have him initiate coming over or going out? Yes. He's being a gentleman, and the way he's going out of his way for you would make me think he's not seeing of you as just a friend. But you didn't mention if he showed any physical attraction towards you. And it looks like the relationship is casual for now. How long have you been seeing each other?
Author zanesfan Posted February 7, 2018 Author Posted February 7, 2018 We met online actually 15 months ago. I decided to go with another person because the chemistry was better. Now, I want to see how things go with him. We have only been talking for the past 2 weeks or so. He held my hand in the car but he.hasnt tried to kiss me or anything yet. I mean it's only been 2 weeks so I don't know.
Jj66 Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 If texting first were the only indicator of interest out there I would still be single. I'm not a morning person so morning texts don't happen or they come later. I'm glad I was able to rebut the presumption of disinterest that must have engendered.
justwhoiam Posted February 7, 2018 Posted February 7, 2018 We have only been talking for the past 2 weeks or so. Two weeks! Relax, he already went out of his way big time.
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