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Why do I care if I'm the one who broke up with him?


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We were best friends first, and then we developed feelings. We never made things exclusive, but we did date for about a month. I freaked out and pushed him away.

 

A week later...

 

He met someone tonight at the bar and took her with us to another bar. I decided to go home because I was feeling weird. Jealous.

 

Why??? I'm the one who ended it. It seems to be a pattern with me lately. I've only had one serious relationship that lasted 5 years, and he cheated on me.

 

I know I'm scared, but enough is enough. I just don't know how to feel normal again.

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I freaked out and pushed him away.

 

What did you freak out about?

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What did you freak out about?

 

It was right after we were intimate for the first time and we were just laying in bed talking about life. I had a wonderful time, but something in me needed him out of my apartment right then and there (after we were talking for hours on end), and I did ask him to leave.

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It's jealousy, you feel that because he found someone else and suddenly he is pinning over you, if you still you want him truly, not because you're jealous of the new partner, then it's better to express your feelings, if you're put down, please accept it and push further.

 

1 month is a short time and feelings aren't sure .

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