Author sour_pikle Posted February 3, 2018 Author Posted February 3, 2018 Also, OP, who else besides the brother is giving you a hard time about this? You say in your thread title that your new girlfriend, your ex and her family are all upset with you. So what have the others said or done in response to you posting your relationship status? Let's imagine for a moment that this happens. If your new girlfriend is rational and alert to the possibility that your ex could stir up drama, then she will also know to ignore any incoming contact from her or anyone connected to her. And if your ex's parents and friends choose to delete you from social media, it's their prerogative. You know you have done nothing wrong, and you don't need to prove yourself to them. Might they have gotten the wrong impression that you left your ex for this new girl? Possibly. But is their opinion of you that important to you? The only person I would actually be concerned about is the one making a direct threat - her brother. Block him, but keep a record of his threat. Do not communicate with him or anyone in her circle at all. You could not be more right. Thank you!
GTR King Posted February 3, 2018 Posted February 3, 2018 My advice would be to block them on Facebook... If you see them in town etc just be civil, If they cause loads of trouble/threats then go to the police if your new G.F Loves you she will ignore them.. You ended things mutually so there is no need for them to be angry 1
Author sour_pikle Posted March 2, 2018 Author Posted March 2, 2018 things escalating now, Her father has now messaged me saying I owe his daughter $4000 dollars? He said "i'll be coming to your office next week to make sure its paid. See you soon!" I don't owe her a dime, she helped out with bills and a water pump that broke down during the time she lived with me and that's it. WTF
heavenonearth Posted March 2, 2018 Posted March 2, 2018 This is why you don't put your whole life on the internet for everyone to see. Facebook official. One of the stupidest things.... ...anyway, block these people and don't engage with them. Obviously.
mikeylo Posted March 2, 2018 Posted March 2, 2018 You are making things very complicated. The solution is very simple but you don't wan to do. In case you want to change your mind: Delete ALL your exes and people associated with them ( THEIR friends, THEIR family ). Ignore the dad's message. If he contacts again, let him.Ignore. If he threatens, tell him to send the proof via attorney.
Author sour_pikle Posted March 2, 2018 Author Posted March 2, 2018 ok ok, I took your advice, everyone has been blocked on fb and instagram, her friends, family, everyone that came into my life as a result of dating her. its done. my concerns was that blocking these people would give them the impression I was scared or hiding from them so I was hesitant to put the idea out there. now, to see if they actually show up to my work. that's crazy. that's where I draw the line.
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