scared shy Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 How many of you LS users have had a painful break up and either had a rebound relationship or your ex moved on quite quickly to a rebound relationship? What are the odds of these working? I may be a little stunted when it comes to relationships, however I know enough to know that when someone I cared for a great deal leaves, I need to take time for myself. I guess the loser I cared for doesn't understand that concept, or he wants to forget about me, or he may have found someone he is happy with. I just think it's funny it happened within days of our last interaction...
Teag Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 It can work, my H was a rebound. I started dating him the day after me & my ex broke up. My ex treated me badly by cheating on me several times & making me feel like I was fat & ugly when I weighed 120lbs & most of his friends wanted to date me. Its now been 5 years since I've been broken up w/ him(& been with my H) & I just celebrated my 3yr anniversay w/ my husband yesterday, so yeah it can work. My breakup was painful but I was trying to forget about him & hurry & get over him & it worked.
Mr.positive Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 Life is funny you never know how any of your decisoins work out.
hoppy28 Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 i just went through this situation...................it left me very disapointed. be very very very carefull. often when someone gets out of a long relationship they miss having "someone around". i was that someone. she left as quickly as she showed up. no explanation. not even a another phone call. you see people.......especially woman love to know they are wanted. when they leave one relationship they most of the time jump into another one with the next guy who shows interest. they may tell you "your so wonderfull"......"i want to be with you" in my case...................i was extremly lead along. told everything a guy would want to hear. for awhile all the actions to back it up were there aswell. the POOOOOF nothing. she's with someone else. i built her confidence up......and she jumped on the next train that came along. BE CAREFULL PLEASE you may get left looking like a fool and feeling embarressed
Author scared shy Posted August 26, 2005 Author Posted August 26, 2005 hoppy28 BE CAREFULL PLEASE you may get left looking like a fool and feeling embarressed Thank you, luckily I am not the one that jumped into the rebound thing. He did, and I hope he gets walked all over. It sounds as if thats what happened to you, and I am very sorry to hear that. It seems to me, that is exactly the kind of girl the loser I have mentioned got hooked up with. It's only a matter of time before she dumps him as well, especially since she is going to be turning 21 soon. He is in for a real big surprise. Karma is a beotch!!
Author scared shy Posted September 12, 2005 Author Posted September 12, 2005 So I just have to update on my situation, it's because I am a little vindictive... So I just found out that he told the hussy he didn't want to see her anymore. Apparently she embarrassed the hell out of him in front of a bunch of people and he told her she needed to grow up. So now she stalks him and finds out where he is going to be and just shows up. He sees her there and takes off. Hahaha, karma did happen... I didn't think that it was going to be so soon. The funniest part of the story, he tells my best friend this and tells her not to say anything to me... LOSER!!
brittanyjean259 Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 i ended a relationship, and my boy headed straight for the rebound,,,he took the easy way out and it hurts like hell..... but i think if you take time for your self and heal properly and morally right..something extra good will happen:( no easy way outs ....thats just wrong..... unless you are very much aware of a rebound, and YOU let that person no if not i hope it comes back to any1 who does that
brittanyjean259 Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 hahaha, scared - i bet that was the best feeling in the world.... you should tell him that your friend told you that he didnt want you to even know... make him feel even more dumb.. i love when things come back to people/... but i do hate whent hey come back to me :-x BUT i always learn my lesson :-D
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