gentleman Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 Girls I have a question, I know most of you like gentlemans and guys with a lot of culture. Well I asked this girl out and she said yes, but after a week when we were planning to go out she went back to her ex. She knew that I was going through a cancer battle and was going to have chemo. I think that she was afraid of the situation. But whenever I see her she is always very nice to me and I catch her looking at me at the gym we go to. I still like her.... After this I´m afraid what will other women think when it comes to the time to tell her that i had cancer (i beat it). There is still a lot of fear towards it.
bunnygrl07 Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 At the time, yes, it may have been the cancer. Getting involved with someone who is battling an illness is a lot of baggage. She may have not wanted to jump in if she wasn't able or ready to support you. It's also more likely that she just simply decided she wanted to go back to your ex. It could have been a different guy that she set a date up with and still would have gone back to the ex. But that's the past. Now the cancer shouldn't be an issue. You beat it, and good for you. You are a healthy normal person again. If she is still staring at you...don't even try to fathom the reason why. I can think of about 10 right now. Just appreciated the attention and take another shot if you want.
gentleman Posted August 30, 2005 Posted August 30, 2005 Yeah I saw her again and she greated me with a huge smile from face to face and asked me how was I doing... A few times we just looked at each other while working out....
adamsbabygirl Posted August 30, 2005 Posted August 30, 2005 Hey its adamsbabygirl. Thank you for saying that. I am glad that I have given you faith and hope. It brings tears to my eyes. I will pray for you to get better. I hope you fine someone like me. When you fine them don't ever let go. Your angle
RecordProducer Posted August 30, 2005 Posted August 30, 2005 Maybe she was, maybe she wasn't afraid of that. I don't think it would stop me if I liked the guy a lot. There are different women in this world. Some will be scared, some won't. It shouldn't discourage you to date them. Just keep loking and be open about it as you were with her. There is nothing to hide. Congratulations on your victory over this terrible disease.
gentleman Posted September 2, 2005 Posted September 2, 2005 thanks for the words. I after adamsgirls´ post I see that there are people out there that see beyond someones problems. I saw her this week again, out of nowhere she started asking me wanted to comfirm what kind of cancer I had, how did I find out, when I was going to get a check up and she wanted to know the results. weird..... Women are very hard to understand...........
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