Miffy Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 I emailed to wish him a happy birthday, broke NC. He hasn't even read it yet - I mean here's me logging on every day hoping for a reply and he hasn't even read my email. He's probably having a great time. No other way to get in touch - what is the matter with me! Feeling very low, missing the excitement, god I hate it when I feel like this!!!!!!! Just trying to keep busy is an effort, I just want to curl up in bed and wake up and never have met him. Argh. Sorry just letting off steam.
BoatingBabe Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 If he hasn't read it yet, can you unsend it??? If so, do that.
ww Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 ok here it goes. don`t worry about it. One of the weird thing happening between me and my ex MM is as much as we "hate " each other and treat each other bad. We always wish each other Happy Birthday and seems that on our Bdays we kinda don`t hate each other and just let it be. Than we go on with stupid attitude. weird ha? Anyway so U wished him a HB, so what? There is nothing bad in wishing good things for someone else. ok? p.s. when I wish him a HB I really mean it.
RecordProducer Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by BoatingBabe If he hasn't read it yet, can you unsend it??? If so, do that. How can she un-send an email that's already sent?
Miffy Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 I can't - the only reason I know it's not read it because I tag it with didtheyreadit. Its sent, sat in inbox but unopened, short of cracking his password and logging into his email it's there to be read. Thanks ww, if that's all I said I would agree with you but I said I missed him, couldn't understand why we didn't speak anymore - the whole sorry me cringy thing, that's what's bothering me now. Feel a right goon, wish to god I could unsend it!!!! Anyone on here a hacker ha ha.
Miffy Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 I wish you were serious ww because I am feeling really bad for letting myself down again, arrghhhh. I want to be a mystery lady who he thinks he could have had but lost - the one he thinks about from time to time, not some sucker. Anyone else stupid like me?????
BoatingBabe Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer How can she un-send an email that's already sent? I have AOL as my server, and we have that feature.
Miffy Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 Perhaps I should invest in AOL - not heard of that feature before though must admit - have you tried it? I will just have to wait and see I suppose, why do I do this????
ww Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 Hey Miffy, don`t beat yourself bc of emailing him a happy birthday. To tell you the truth I went through 2 years of sadness bc of my ex MM I only recently managed to get over him. At least it does not hurt anymore. I `ve sent him tons of e mails and messages. He was the only person on this plaet not able to talk to me on phone. We kept comunication on sms and e-mails. If I look back now the only thing I can think about is : I HATE MESSAGING. It is far more nice to talk to ppl on phone or face to face.
whichwayisup Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 I can't - the only reason I know it's not read it because I tag it with didtheyreadit. Its sent, sat in inbox but unopened, short of cracking his password and logging into his email it's there to be read. Thanks ww, if that's all I said I would agree with you but I said I missed him, couldn't understand why we didn't speak anymore - the whole sorry me cringy thing, that's what's bothering me now. Feel a right goon, wish to god I could unsend it!!!! Anyone on here a hacker ha ha. Yeah and he could click the tag that will NOT show a read receipt. So you will not know if he did or not. Just let it go, don't email him again. Forget about it.
ww Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 I am sorry but i am gonig to harsh this time: IF YOU WERE A MAN ENOUGH TO GET YOURSELF INTO THIS MESS BC OF SEX, THAN GET YOURSELF OUT OF IT AS A MAN SHOULD DO. And next time please stay away from taen ladies...even better stay at home with your wife NO MERCY
ww Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 I AM SORRY ! WRONG THREAD! Meant for : serious problem thread
Miffy Posted August 30, 2005 Posted August 30, 2005 ww I was worried for a moment - staying home with my wife he he whichwayisup - I understand your gist so thanks for the advice. didtheyreadit is invisible and does not have the click facility - that one is called readnotify.com and the reason I did not go for it. But yes thank you, feeling better - in a sort of sod it it's done mood now. thank you
Miffy Posted September 3, 2005 Posted September 3, 2005 He still hasn't read my emails - unless he is on holiday that in itself should speak volumes, however I made a mistake, hope to jump back onto the NC route. After all a man doesn't respect the woman who instantly responds at the click of fingers - or am I wrong? Wondered if any men could give an insight - no bashing please though?
whichwayisup Posted September 3, 2005 Posted September 3, 2005 Then all I can suggest is back off, try your best to put him out of your head. Keep busy and I'm sure he'll notice you've not contacted him...Maybe he'll wonder why and try to get intouch with you. Go out with friends, shoot pool, see movies, DO nice things for YOU. Put yourself first right now and also go read no foolin's thread in the coping section called the long guided walk to no contact. Many people have posted on that thread so it's long...But it's very useful and helped so many on LS. Don't email him again. Yes, I'm sure it's hard for you but when you put energy out there and you don't get it back that is what is setting you off too, seems too one sided.
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